Right, I turn 30 in 2 months, I cannot possibly start my 30s weighing over 10 stone, feel like it would be a bad sign fior things to come, please help me!

[Bumperlicious]

I turn 30 at the end of March. I weigh 11.5 stone and am 5'2.

I have dd1 who is 3 and dd2 who is 3.5 months (hmm, funny how you round that figure up when pg and down when the baby has been born!).

Ideally I'd like to be 9 stone but that ain't going to happen for a while so I will settle for 9 stone 13lbs by my birthday.

The challenges: I am breastfeeding(therefore constantly hungry), skint, surviving on 5-6 hours sleep and have 2 children at home, the eldest goes to nursery 2 days a week but the youngest is a sleep fighter so don't often have a lot of time for exercising.

I need tips, support, motivation. I cannot be this weight any longer, but have lost all power of resistance and am so tired all the time.

I'm sure this won't be my last thread about turning 30, I feel an existential crisis looming....

C'mon! I need your help!

I have no tips, but I am willing to be a buddy?

I turn 30 in 2 months too. I want stomach muscles and to weigh less. I have less to lose, but it is that niggly bit I never shift iyswim.

Thanks flame. I need ways of fitting in exercise with the kids & ways to kid myself I am less hungry!