Why as a mother do we alwys feel quilty, if we have played all day there is no tiem for cooking so we feel bad about feeding them crap food and vice versa. My sister phoned me to see if it was Ok if her kids had eaten lollies and chips all day and now they were in her bed watching a movie with a bowl of cereal...her kids are 3 and 2 and she is 4 months pregant and knackered. I laughed.