Ebay question

[Mytwopenceworth]

I'm new to ebay, - won 3 things! Anyway, one of the things was pay by postal order, but the sellers address was 'not on file' so I was supposed to contact them for it. I sent a message thru ebay, no response. Sent 1 direct and again the following day, all asking can I please have your address so I can send the postal order. I've had no response at all. Now, the seller says you have to pay within - think its 5 days, or they relist and (I assume) give you negative feedback. If they don't send me their address - how am I supposed to pay them? And if they do give me negative feedback, that would surely read as 50%, being 1 of only 2 feedbacks?! Which would look dreadful! But how could I prove that its their fault for not ansering my repeated requests for their address?

Don't panic, they are unlikely to bother leaving you feeback at all.

Either - they havn't read your emails yet or they regretted you getting their item at a low price and decided to go into hiding until you forget about it. I'd certainly be tempted to leave them feedback if you don't hear from then in another week - but then i can see your dilemma as you only have one feedback so far.

dont want to sound dumb here but you did complete checkout i assume?

something to remember is that it is the weekend and they may be away

ditto - my thought too, they may be away for the weekend.

Went thru to pay, and there was no address on file so there was an option to email seller, which I did, is there anything else I should do - the other one was paypal, which I did straight away. But her email address was there, so I cut and pasted and emailed her direct twice, so surely she should have got it? Did I miss something out?

yes, it being a bank holiday weekend they probably have gone away! Didn't think of that (just cos I've got no life, I asume nobody else has!!!)