jacksmamaslittlebundleoflove. I hoped I was being subtle in 'outing' her. My feeling is that poster has a few unresolved ishoos - as no doubt we all have, somewhere!! But I'm not sure how much insight she has. It's a difficult one for sure.
Wishing you the very best of luck for your 'repair' job. And how lovely your mum is to look after you and take over your Jackbaby for those few important weeks. Hopefully everything will go perfectly now for you and you'll be right as rain in jig time.
Birth can be very unpredictable can't it?
My gynae surgeon says my repair job post crash section is a hysterectomy - so I'm putting that off - not very surprisingly I had a huge incision and lots of scars and adhesions, so everything is all bunged up.
I find that when I talk about (and then feel sad) about DD's birth, or even hear about other babies' births, it takes a few days for my sad mood to lift and for the cloud to pass and the sun to come out again, so to speak.
I hope I'm not always going to have to have such an effort to say "Congratulations" when I hear of someone's fabby homebirth of their 4th baby for eg, as I did yesterday.
Now, don't get me wrong - I am happy for someone who has had an easy birth - I'm just still saddened that mine was so bad, in effect it sterilised me, and left me in pain.
I can appreciate for ellymae how hard it must have been to post to a lot of 'strange' women (and the trucker called Barry) - and then to get an insensitive post... humm I think that thread upset me also daisy.
Pause for a deep breath.
Anyhows, I've decided to drape Mellors in my bathrobe, now that I've successfully changed behind that lovely blue silk Chinese Screen.
No more rudie bits even if they are artfully toparied from you Mellors!
And sorry for being glum rabbiting on. I know it's just because the bumps under the carpet trip me up occasionally!!!
Again, best of luck Jacksmamaslittlebundleoflove! hope your op goes splendidly and recovery is swift.
More tea anyone?