Is it normal to wobble?

[AliceAbsolum]

DH has had the snip. He doesn't want another one.
But sometimes I struggle with having one. What if we've made the wrong choice? Or is having some wobbles normal?

Did he get it privately or NHS? I thought they only offered it to men with 3 or more children TBH.

My post sounded like it was his decision. It wasn't. Very much a joint one we agreed on.

Nhs

I had a huge wobble when we got the letter saying that the procedure had worked and we could dispense with contraception.

Bawled my eyes out for about an hour solid. We have two kids but would likely have had three if we'd been slightly younger.

Now though, we have two teenagers and thank fuck I don't have a third. I'm exhausted.

One is the best. You'll be good. Yes wobbles are normal!

I have wobbles ALL THE TIME! I'm having one now because a friend is pregnant. It's so hard. Most days I think we made the right decision but others I do regret not trying for another one (we did need IVF for our one so that we don't really have a choice)