Hi all......so I have 50:50 with the ex of my 14 year old daughter. When she started secondary school the ex convinced her that one week with me and one week with him is fair. Prior I had majority he had every other weekend which worked well. Anyway 2 things. Her behaviour towards me has changed not doubt influenced and hormones but now ex has moved further away with his new partner so my child stays with grandma on school days. I don't understand why grandma gets to parent my child. Should my child not be with me when not with her dad? Grandma is lonely and child feels sad for her so feels its her responsibility. Again very influenced. How so I take back my child without my child hating me. She has year 10 at school coming up and needs stability not floating between 3 houses. I should be allowed to be her mum. Am going mad. Any advice please.