"was he planned"

[LittleTalia]

I am sick of this! Id have loved 3 children but can't for medical reasons, Unless we use a surrogate to carry our fertilised eggs.

Just because we only have one..doesn't mean he wasn't planned. :/

People never know when to keep their noses out of other people's business. Especially something as personal as this. You shouldn't have to explain yourself, they don't need to know your business.

My son was planned but born sooner than I had planned, I'd always wanted kids. After having him, I didn't want anymore due to a crap birth and treatment in hospital. No-one understands how long it took me to get over that (kinda still not).
I get asked all the time "when am I having another" and get told "you'll have another soon"... drives me nuts.

Actions speak louder than words.

People are so rude.
FWIW a friend of mine gets that too for her big family (because it being bigger than average must mean one was accidental, to be above the 2.4 norm).

Idiots just say idiotic stuff.