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UniS · 15/06/2011 23:05

To pinch an intro from the very first one and only tea room thread. in 2009.

The tea room is now officially open, serving hot chocolate, tea, freshly-squeezed orange juice and a range of home-baked muffins. Tablecloths and crockery are charmingly mismatched antiques (no Cath Kidston here). We overlook an attractive although somewhat overgrown garden, with a distant view of rolling countryside.

Everyone is welcome but house rules dictate that anyone indulging in fisticuffs will be ejected.

Please come in.

2011
We seem to have fetched up in Ireland, this place looks remarkably like a pub,There is even a guiness barrel over there. The NMBs are all sporting shamrocks. The mirror ball is here, but I leave teh rest of the unpacking to someone else.

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Jacksmania · 16/07/2011 17:56

Aww Amber, boo to possibly dodgy heart and all the other stuff :(
(((HUG))) or whatever works for you.

UniS · 16/07/2011 19:58

Brew yes please.

Mistle and I had a mini tea room meet up today , which did include tea, tho we forwent the joys of RL cake. Boy and MC got on like a house on fire, with ( as Mr Mistle said) all the shouts, screams, running about and chaos that a house fire normally provokes.

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ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 16/07/2011 20:05

Yay for the mini meet-up!

oxeye · 16/07/2011 20:51

Unis what fun! Have you and mistle met before?
Boo heart Amber. I am sure it'll be short term side effect of chemistry body

am feling a but bleugh because oxpox has been winding me up something rotten today. He does what he knows annoys and thrn immediAtely says sorry ! But then carries on I am descending into shrieking harridan who threatens to take his toys away. I fear I dont carry through but neither do I like parenting by forced compliance. And he is i'll

scout why not just trim fringe?
bean I wouldn't worry. Sprout may not mind re other children. We do lots as a three

AandO · 16/07/2011 22:10

Hi guys! Been a little busy lately and haven't popped in. Hope everyone is well [hsmile].

LittleO goes to summer camp this week. DH is working loads four hours away, but LittleO and I are getting on really well together, lots of nice days out. I sometimes feel I focus much more on LittleO when dh is away and that he is much more pleasant because of it.

beanandspud · 16/07/2011 23:14

Tee - I will be watching although my parents will be here so I am hoping that I can get away with watching and mn-ing at the same time! Helen to win?

RagingRabbit · 16/07/2011 23:20

Hello all! Have also been a bit otherwise engaged for the last little while but have been trying to catch up when possible, and keep up with all the goings-on!

Amber - hope heart is OK.

Catita - RBoy also has a weird crown thing, barbers/hairdressers always say he's got a double crown, then they say oh it's not really a double crown, it's just... funny. Anyway, upshot is that with a normal cut his hair also sticks up all over the place, but we really didn't like the number 1 cut look on him - it's a very clear social statement here, usually! - so we go for a normal short cut but left longer round the crown so it's long enough to lie flat (or heavy enough, with the weight of it). Ideally. Doesn't always work like that.

How lovely to have a mini meet-up!

Was at our school fair last week (where RBoy goes to nursery school, is part of our local primary) and went to friend's house afterwards who has an only DD in reception. Just thought I'd mention her report in the light of some of the ridiculous pre-conceptions and prejudices about onlies, as friend showed it to me, glowing with pride! - According to this report, her DD has absolutely fantastic social skills, is extremely sensitive and responsive to the needs of others, wonderful at sharing and encouraging others to share too, generally helpful and sociable and socially confident and very well-integrated with her peers, and just a really nice child to have in the class, etc etc etc.

Anyway, I know we all know that the blinkered ideas some folk have about onlies (and some teachers, alarmingly, if I remember something Serpent posted a while back rightly) are bunkum, but I thought it was nice to see that stereotype being turned quite so comprehensively on its head.

Dance, anyone? Was whizzing round in the dodgems with RBoy a couple of weeks ago and came on - oh JOY!!!!! Oh, and he had his first drive of a go-kart, all by himself - and he was REALLY GOOD!!!! Grin

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 16/07/2011 23:24

::grooves on down::

RagingRabbit · 16/07/2011 23:38

lovin' those shapes, Maud

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 16/07/2011 23:42

By a strange coincidence, earlier this evening I was listening to the Ukulele Orchestra of GB's .

::throws more shapes previously unknown to geometry::

RagingRabbit · 16/07/2011 23:42

and loving the toddler art thread - can't stop reading bits out to MrR -anyone else enjoying it?

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 16/07/2011 23:43

Oh yes. I even offered my own feeble (and not toddler) contribution.

RagingRabbit · 16/07/2011 23:44

now there's something I'd never heard before! You're right Maud, that is a bit of a coincidence. I don't know why but that song is one of those ones I've just always loved in a real deep-down way. Funny how music can just get to something inside you, isn't it?

RagingRabbit · 16/07/2011 23:45

oh I didn't see that Maud! got to stop reading and get to bed now so will have to save that for tomorrow. How does one combine all the various joys of MN with actually having a life? I still haven't worked it out.

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 16/07/2011 23:48

Thing is, Rabbit, I have only ever known it as a UOGB song. I don't think I've heard them play it live but it sometimes comes up after other things of theirs which I quite regularly listen to on YouTube - tonight I was listening to You Don't Bring Me Flowers for my Neil Diamond thread (qv) and it came up then.

mistlethrush · 17/07/2011 20:17

I love UOGB - and mistlechick can sing most of theirs - goodness knows what will happen if we ever manage to take him to one of their concerts.

meet up with UniS went well - at least from our point of view - hope that Boy wasnt too overpowered with mc's enthusiasm

BIt dampe here - too wet today to stand on beach whilst mc splashes in sea in his new wetsuit (recommended age 11-12)(to allow some chance for it to fit next year)

Scout19075 · 17/07/2011 20:46

I'm bored of it.

AandO · 17/07/2011 21:38

Hello!

LittleO starts summer camp tomorrow!! He was upset about it earlier on until I discovered that he'd got it into his head that he had to sleep over at camp and I was able to put him straight.

Any news with anyone? Who has seen Harry Potter? I was supposed to see it during the week but will probably now have to wait until the following week Sad Sad.

UniS · 17/07/2011 21:41

Boy had a good day out but he was pretty knackered by the end of it. We REALLY need summer hols to recharge his batteries. Mistle- boy LOVES the sandals and the fact they "fit" with 2 straps clinched right down and the toe strap Just about doing up. Glad you had fun on the beach today. We went to village beer fest and those 2 finger skateboards were very handy again.

DH and I are reading Beowulf ( as retold by Tony Bradman and Tony Ross) to Boy, he was gripped tonight by chapter 2 and demanded the 3rd chapter NOW. We are starting to get into reading chapter books to him, so long as teh chapters are short.

So any body for a snackeral of someting tonight? Can I help you to a slice of quiche or some cheese and crackers?

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AandO · 17/07/2011 21:47

I don't know if you remember but a few weeks back LittleO told me that when he grows up he'd like to be in a family where there are two daddies, he'd be one daddy, then they'd be another one, and they'd have babies together (probably four Grin). Anyway, as I said I told him that's fine, and made no deal about it. I was thinking about whether or not he actually will be gay and was wondering in your experiences whether all little boys say things like this or not? He has always said things like this. He also says alot of things like when he grows up he is going to shave his legs like a lady does not let the hair grow like men do, he really wants to have a baby himself and be a mummy, I don't know, it's just ongoing little comments and I was just curious really as to whether this is standard little boy stuff.

AandO · 17/07/2011 21:51

Cheese and crackers sound good Unis! We have also started on chapter books. So far we have done The BFG, Georges Marvellous Medicine, The Magic Faraway Tree, The Lion the witch and the wardrobe, Pippi Longstocking, and Esio Trot. Is Beowulf the old old old book?

AandO · 17/07/2011 21:51

Oh and The giraffe the pelly and me!

UniS · 17/07/2011 22:11

Beowulf is an old old old norse story. Lots of versions around. This one is an early reader
from orchard books

Bean at summer camp!!! I didn;t think bean was that old?

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AandO · 17/07/2011 22:18

LittleO will be five in October. School doesn't start until September and since we were in India for the last school year he finished in preschool in March when we left so he's just been at home with me for ages and he seems to be getting bored of his toys and lack of regular kiddie company so summer camp seems a good idea.

AandO · 17/07/2011 22:19

Looked up your link. Until then I had images of you pulling out this massive dust covered half disintergrating (sp?) book every evening Grin!!