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Do I have to pay for the supervision lunch charge if my son (4y.o.) is eligible for free school meals?

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reablaz · 01/03/2025 16:57

Hello,

Do I have to pay for the supervision lunch charge if my son (4y.o.) is eligible for free school meals?

I have applied for free school meals recently, and received an email saying my child is eligible for free school meals.

The school charges parents £382 per academic year for the supervision at lunch time between 11:30 and 12:15 every day (45min), which is £2 per day (£10 a week, £382 per year in total); doesn't not matter if a child eats school meals (free or not), or bring their own lunch boxes with home food (schools still have to supervise and charge for it).

Google AI says if a child is eligible for free school meals, parents do not have to pay for supervision charge. We also receive 30 free hours.

Google/AI:
"Yes, if your child is eligible for free school meals, the supervision charge during lunchtime is typically covered, as the school is required to provide proper facilities and supervision for all pupils to eat their meals safely, regardless of whether they pay for lunch or not; this includes children receiving free school meals."

Government website:
"Facilities to eat the food that they bring to school must be provided free of charge for pupils not taking school meals. As a minimum these facilities should include accommodation, furniture and supervision so that pupils can eat food they have brought from home in a safe and social environment."

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/standards-for-school-food-in-england/school-food-in-england#:~:text=Facilities%20to%20eat%20the%20food,a%20safe%20and%20social%20environment.

I am confused, do we have to pay for the supervision or not?

Is it allowed by law for the school to charge for the supervision?

I am looking for calm and relevant answers with no criticism, arrogance, sarcasm or irony. If it is not the right place, please let me know, if there are any communities, forums, groups where I can ask these questions; or possibly, should I call to my district council, school itself or citizens advice?

Thank you.

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Sirzy · 01/03/2025 17:32

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:27

Yes, I might be confused, not sure, but I thought, I am right. He was 4 in December . I have applied for my son for next year schools on time (met the deadline), had to make (can't remember) 4-5 school choices.

You have applied for a reception place then.

In England many schools have nurseries attached either from age 3 or from age 2. But they are separate in terms of admission.

You then apply to the local authority for admission into reception (nursery attendance doesn’t guarantee a place)

Whoarethoseguys · 01/03/2025 17:33

If he is in reception they can't charge for lunchtime supervision as it is part of the school day. If he is in a maintained nursery I don't know so I think it would he best if you contact your local authority.

Ritzybitzy · 01/03/2025 17:33

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:21

I assume, I can disclose the school name:

The morning session at [school name redacted] Primary School and Nursery in [town name redacted] runs from 8:30 AM–11:30 AM, and the afternoon session runs from 12:15 PM–3:15 PM.

My son is at Reception year. In September 2025 he is going to start primary school Year1.

If he is in the nursery year you have to pay. If he’s in reception they cannot charge you. Did you decide to hold back a summer born?

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 01/03/2025 17:33

Think you mean you child is in a nursery, not in school yet.

30hrs is while a child is in nursery, up to the point they start reception at age 4.

All children get free school meals in England in reception, year 1 and year 2.

I think you are talking about a nursery? Where your child is attending the whole day (so morning and afternoon sessions) so you have to pay the time in between the sessions and can use your funded hours for the morning and afternoon sessions

teapotfullofsquash · 01/03/2025 17:34

He's in preschool/nursery at that age. And if he goes for the hours 8.30 to 3.15 you have to cover the lunchtime, you only get 6 hours per day. Our school nursery gives you the option, pay for lunch or collect at 2.30pm

Ritzybitzy · 01/03/2025 17:34

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:27

Yes, I might be confused, not sure, but I thought, I am right. He was 4 in December . I have applied for my son for next year schools on time (met the deadline), had to make (can't remember) 4-5 school choices.

He’s in nursery. You have to pay.

He is not starting year 1 in September he will be starting reception.

HalfTermHoliday · 01/03/2025 17:35

To those incredulous that op had made this mistake - it's possible that they didn't grow up in the UK or there's a language barrier, or they just haven't been closely involved with young children until now. And a mixed nursery/reception setting has muddied the waters. Either way, they found the right place and asked the question and have had answers so no harm done, and supporting people with all elements of raising children is what mn is here for.
All the best op.

FrannyScraps · 01/03/2025 17:35

@reablaz did you apply by January this year for a school place? Because results haven't been revealed yet so I'm confused why you think he's in reception?

Ritzybitzy · 01/03/2025 17:35

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:32

Oh, I didn't know, he is going to the nursery (if I am right, correct me if not) for about 1 year and a half. And nobody told us our child can receive free school meals. I assume, he has the time until end of July 2025 to try some? :)
But not sure if we have to pay for the supervision lunch charge. From Sep 2024 until now we brought (and previous academic year) we brought out own meals, and had to pay for supervision lunch charge.
Do we have to pay for it, or not?

You definitely have to pay.

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:35

fashionqueen0123 · 01/03/2025 17:31

So as he’s not in reception/school yet then you won’t be entitled to free school meals. This is for school children.

I have applied and received a message we are eligible:

"Hello Mr,

The eligibility check has confirmed that you meet the eligibility criteria for
Free School Meals.

Your application reference is . The reference can be used to re-apply
later and for any other communication with the school about Free School Meals.

The school (school name redacted) that ... attends will be notified as soon as possible.

Yours sincerely,

-- The OFSM Team"

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Littlefish · 01/03/2025 17:36

The morning session at [school name redacted] Primary School and Nursery in [town name redacted] runs from 8:30 AM–11:30 AM, and the afternoon session runs from 12:15 PM–3:15 PM.

This definitely refers to Nursery.

Your child is in Nursery, not Reception. He will be going in to Reception in September.

Contact your Local Authority Funding Team and explain that the school has a compulsory charge in the middle of the day which is preventing you from taking your full 30 hours free of charge. They will look in to it.

The school is absolutely within their rights to offer a 6 hour day, fron 9.25am to 3.15pm (6 hours x 5 days a week = 30 hours) and also offer an additional morning session fron 8.30am to 9.15am (and charge what they like for this).

Ritzybitzy · 01/03/2025 17:36

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:35

I have applied and received a message we are eligible:

"Hello Mr,

The eligibility check has confirmed that you meet the eligibility criteria for
Free School Meals.

Your application reference is . The reference can be used to re-apply
later and for any other communication with the school about Free School Meals.

The school (school name redacted) that ... attends will be notified as soon as possible.

Yours sincerely,

-- The OFSM Team"

Edited

There are free school meals for all children in reception - year 2 and a separate entitlement for nursery age children if they’re low income households.

Ritzybitzy · 01/03/2025 17:37

I am so confused how you don’t know what year your child is in or what year they will be in when they start school?!

Willyoushutthefrontdoor · 01/03/2025 17:37

My kids are older but its not changed since they attended. Our primary had a nursery unit that my children attended from age 3...As part of, and under the authority of the main school. Any kids there fell under the same umbrella as any other primary school attendee. I've honestly never heard of being charged for supervision

LIZS · 01/03/2025 17:38

Do they offer hot meals to those attending both am/pm . You may still need to pay the cover charge as it is out of the funded session time but meal would be free. From September no charge applies anyway.

ThatThisThatYou · 01/03/2025 17:42

Please speak to the school about FSM. Some schools will use their Early Years Pupil Premuim to find FSM for nursery children, some will just honour FSM even if there is no funding attached. You school office will be able to help.

TwentyTwentyFive · 01/03/2025 17:42

Forget the free school meals issue surely your biggest issue is have you actually applied for a school place for your child for September??

Sirzy · 01/03/2025 17:43

TwentyTwentyFive · 01/03/2025 17:42

Forget the free school meals issue surely your biggest issue is have you actually applied for a school place for your child for September??

Yes she has already said she has.

OP if you can’t afford the charge then I would talk to the school and I am sure they will put something in place.

FrannyScraps · 01/03/2025 17:46

Sirzy · 01/03/2025 17:43

Yes she has already said she has.

OP if you can’t afford the charge then I would talk to the school and I am sure they will put something in place.

Yes but she also thought he was already in Reception!

fashionqueen0123 · 01/03/2025 17:49

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:35

I have applied and received a message we are eligible:

"Hello Mr,

The eligibility check has confirmed that you meet the eligibility criteria for
Free School Meals.

Your application reference is . The reference can be used to re-apply
later and for any other communication with the school about Free School Meals.

The school (school name redacted) that ... attends will be notified as soon as possible.

Yours sincerely,

-- The OFSM Team"

Edited

Maybe you told them your child was at school and in reception year? But turns out they are in nursery.

Hayley1256 · 01/03/2025 17:51

He's not in school yet, he's in nursery that is attached to the school. He should start school in reception where all children qualify for free school meals. As far as I'm aware you will still have to pay for meals whilst he is at nursery

TwentyTwentyFive · 01/03/2025 17:56

Sirzy · 01/03/2025 17:43

Yes she has already said she has.

OP if you can’t afford the charge then I would talk to the school and I am sure they will put something in place.

I appreciate she's said she's applied but I find it hard to understand how a parent who has just submitted a reception place application could think their child was already in reception and going into year 1 hence wanting to check she had actually submitted an application?

LadyLapsang · 01/03/2025 17:58

The Department for Education details what things state schools can and can’t charge for in the 2018 publication, Charging for school activities. It is available online.

reablaz · 01/03/2025 18:00

PensionPuzzle · 01/03/2025 17:06

I assume as you mention 30 free hours this is a preschool attached to a school and your child is not yet in reception (due to start in September?). If so I'm confident they can charge for the time between their funded sessions as the child will receive their 30 hours which presumably fall 8.30 to 11.30 and 12.15 to 15.15. You will get your FSM and not have to pay for any supervision inside the school day when child starts reception. Although at the minute you will get the universal infant free school meal anyway.

To repeat, I am assuming preschool and in England in my answer, apologies if this is not the case.

Ups, then we will pay of course, but nobody told us for 1 year and a half (starting from Sep 2023 until July 2024, then Sep 2024 until now March 2025) we were eligible for infant free school meals. I assume, we can use them from now until July 2025 (what's left), is that right?

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Soontobe60 · 01/03/2025 18:03

reablaz · 01/03/2025 17:27

Yes, I might be confused, not sure, but I thought, I am right. He was 4 in December . I have applied for my son for next year schools on time (met the deadline), had to make (can't remember) 4-5 school choices.

So he’s in Nursery, in my school the nursery and reception classes are in the building. If a nursery child wants to stay for lunch they have to pay a supplement, the lunch may be free and supervision whilst eating but not the remaining 45 minutes break,
thats what you need to pay for