I have decided, due to the outcry about male carers assisting little girls on the toilet........

[BaroqueAroundTheClock]

that I going to go into nursery tomorrow and tell the I am uncomfortable with any female member of staff helping DS3 wipe his bum.

That's and ok thing to do isn't it? It's not sexist, or really irrational or without any solid justification, it's just how I feel so therefore I must be 100% correct

and I will now award myself the first of the thread

Good point, Baroque me ol' mate. I am sure I have missed the point about this somewhere, I have no idea why people want to complain about male midwives, nursery carers, etc. My DH is one. Plain weird imho.

- well you know I think some of these other people maybe don't have a point so I've been thinking about it a bit. You know it's not right, them lovely nursery workers wiping my lovely DS3's willy penis so he doesn't get the drips in his pants, or wiping the poo from around his arse anus.

I actively encourage you to do it.

May open some closed minds.

Pour that Baileys please.

HAHA Chaos - if I really did do that DS3's key workers would look at me like this

(and the probably ask if I'd been on the bottle a bit earlier than usual )

(and have final confirmation than I'm off my rocker)

i can forsee one very stressed out nursery manager if you go follow through with your totally rational and non-prejudice based plan.

bugger - just realised it won't work - I know the nursery manager personally she used to come to our church........maybe I ought to go higher to the chair of Governors

Just complain to Ofsted, they will sort it for you.

And any Bisexual ones will never have to change another nappy ever again!