Pregnant?? All neg tests

[emmalou512]

Long story short its almost 2 months since my last AF. Never missed AF previously unless up duff 🙄. Im 42 years old with 3 boys. All tests reading neg but having lots of symptoms since past 3 weeks Eg. Flushes, nausia, cramps, low twinges, low back ache, upset stomach with lots of gas, bloat, waking 5am most mornings to pee and now this weird tightening sensation in my tummy like ive overdone it with the situps and just a feeling that bob the builder is in my womb. Ive also been emotional and actually felt broody when i saw a pregnant lady yesterday. I wasnt trying for a baby either. Is it possible im pregnant but its not being detected on home tests? Sorry for long post and lack of abbreviations im a noob 🙈

A friend of mine thought this but it actually turned out to be the start of the menopause...!
False negatives are possible so maybe try tests again but if you're not pregnant but having weird symptoms like you're having I'd see the gp.

Yeah ive visited the GP a week ago and he told me to take another test Friday gone which was again neg so ive got another appointment booked for next week. I just really doubt its menapause as its all come at once and the symptoms all point to pregnancy. Also weird that it comes right when id had unprotected sex before last AF was due.

I think your symptoms warrant a GP visit tbh.

If tests aren't picking anything up at all then if you are pregnant it's unlikely to be a normal pregnancy. If you've missed two periods then perhaps you were pregnant but have miscarried and now the hormones are fading so not being picked up on the tests?
Still, glad you've got a gp appointment booked. Anything different to the norm should always be checked. Don't let them fob you off.

Thanks, if i dont get AF by Wednesday which is the day of my appointment then ill certainly want further investigarions.

Another day with lower AF type mild cramping and feeling like ive done too many sit ups. Still no AF. Getting these most days now on and off.

It might be time to start recording the times/intensity etc of these symptoms if you haven't already..? Maybe you're just building up to the mother of all periods but glad you've got an appointment coming up.