Hi ladies. I was wondering how other moms third degree healed. I'm currently 8 weeks PP two weeks ago I took a look down there FINALLY. I SAW a long slit almost to anus.. I was an inch to tear my anus. Thank God I didn't. Anywho.. I was wondering if this slit (kind looks like a long pussy lip :(..) is e ER going to close. I can see the tissue healing still but this slip traumatized me. Sometimes when I blow wind it goea to virgina and I queef. It also. Depends on my position.. Its mostly when I'm sitting down. I want a hear what are other moms experience in healing