Marriage Problem

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Hi all. I need some help, please. I’ve been married for 2 1/2 years but a month ago I kissed a colleague after I’d had a few drinks. I’d been insane about him for ages but I never thought anything would happen as he’s in a long term relationship as well. We’re now seeing each other a lot and it’s properly messing with my head. I do love my husband but I’m in love with this guy. I’ve only told my best friend and he thinks I should end things with the new guy, but I don’t think I can. If anyone has any advice, I’d really appreciate it. There are no kids involved. Thanks.

Growing up would be a good start, kids or not, your DH deserves far more respect than this

I'm not sure how you're expecting people to advise you. You'll have to end it with one of them - only you can decide which. Your colleague doesn't sound a marvellous prospect if he's carrying on a long term relationship while seeing you; but you're not showing yourself in a very good light, either.

Hi. I am new to this group. I am going through serious marital problems and am considering divorce. I have 4 kids 19 , 17 , 12 and 8. I live in Glasgow and would appreciate recommendations for good solicitors. And price range?
I also have worries regarding assets. I mortgaged a house and paid £40k...while my DH who earns much more refused to contribute even a penny. Now he doesn't even help with bills so I fear a situation where the property could be split between us and am left miserable with kids and struggling financially. The mortgage and deeds are in my name.

Please help

Jubilee4 you need to start a new thread in 'legal' or 'relationships'.
I have reported your post in the hopes that MNHQ can help you here.