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Bad situation in my parents house

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 13:03

I've recently travelled to England from Spain with my four young children to visit our family over the summer holiday's. On the first day of arriving I was already unhappy with the arrangements in my parents house. My sister, who is 25 and is now living with my parents, is currently single but is sleeping with a man for her own sexual pleasures. Now, many of you might think this is ok, except she is sleeping with him in my parents house and he is also staying the night whilst my children and I are here. I've stressed my concerns with my parents and I've asked my parent if while we are here, can they ask my sister not to bring this man into the house, but they refused. They both seem to think this is ok and she can have anybody she wants over to sleep with her even while we are here. I've also spoken to my older sister who has got four children and she also thinks this is ok. Please, can you give me some advice as to what I could do!?! I haven't got enough money to stay somewhere else neither have I got anywhere else we could go. I can just leave as I love on Spain.

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YogiYoni · 01/08/2017 20:20

I know of two reasons for sleeping with a man. In order of popularity:
1 - sexual pleasures
2 - procreation

Op, YABU.

TinselTwins · 01/08/2017 20:26

I sleep with my husband for sexual pleasure. In the same house my children sleep in, should I not?

Also, If I have a friend to visit, should my husband move out for the weekend so that she does not have to share a house with a couple who may or may not find each other sexually pleasing

How does this apply in appartment blocks? Confused

What about hotels? can I ring ahead and make sure that nobody is having sexual pleasure in the building during my stay?

TinselTwins · 01/08/2017 20:28

You seem okay with your parents both staying in the house during your visit OP, you are aware that many people report that sexual pleasure gets better after menopause right? Maybe one of both of them should leave for the duration of your trip too?

AdalindSchade · 01/08/2017 20:30

This is a UK forum and it's 2017. Prevailing attitudes do not agree with your no sex before marriage stance.

BingoFlamingos · 01/08/2017 20:37

Heateallthebuns your Dsis's house sounds just like my parents house! (Some of my siblings are teens however!) but when our family comes to stay the kids think that we (siblings and partners) are sooo cool there's something about being a grown up but not as old as mum and dad that makes you faultless in the eyes of 4-12 year olds. Grin

Ceto · 02/08/2017 00:52

OP, when everyone is disagreeing with you, including your own relatives, you really have to think about who might be the idiot.

HeebieJeebies456 · 02/08/2017 04:37

book yourselves into a hotel then!

Mummyoflittledragon · 02/08/2017 07:15

No love, we aren't idiot. You just like to get yourself flamed ..... twice on dupkicate threads!!

Sandra18 · 03/08/2017 17:37

You guys replying with your cheeky funny replys making me lol today you all so funny with your replys Halo

WellThisIsShit · 09/08/2017 01:44

Oh dear, your world is stuffed full of idiots, nearly every single person you meet. Poor you.

Primrose06 · 30/08/2017 20:42

You can be concerned 're your children .
But as long as he is not dangerous and it is your parents home then you have to accept their rules.
Surely kids know thàt adults share rooms and can accept that.

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