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Bad situation in my parents house

86 replies

mim2007 · 01/08/2017 13:03

I've recently travelled to England from Spain with my four young children to visit our family over the summer holiday's. On the first day of arriving I was already unhappy with the arrangements in my parents house. My sister, who is 25 and is now living with my parents, is currently single but is sleeping with a man for her own sexual pleasures. Now, many of you might think this is ok, except she is sleeping with him in my parents house and he is also staying the night whilst my children and I are here. I've stressed my concerns with my parents and I've asked my parent if while we are here, can they ask my sister not to bring this man into the house, but they refused. They both seem to think this is ok and she can have anybody she wants over to sleep with her even while we are here. I've also spoken to my older sister who has got four children and she also thinks this is ok. Please, can you give me some advice as to what I could do!?! I haven't got enough money to stay somewhere else neither have I got anywhere else we could go. I can just leave as I love on Spain.

OP posts:
BingoFlamingos · 01/08/2017 14:12

@meanager me too! The mind boggles.

WatchingFromTheWings · 01/08/2017 14:15

"I don't like the replies here so I'm going to try elsewhere to get different responses". 😆

Mummyoflittledragon · 01/08/2017 14:28

I think this is actually a duplicate thread. She's a newbie.

mim2007 · 01/08/2017 14:49

I've wasted my time on here. I'm obviously talking to a load of idiots.

OP posts:
MikeUniformMike · 01/08/2017 14:50

I hope you don't mean me mim.

EnidNextDoor · 01/08/2017 14:52

We love you mim. Don't go.

Cackleberry4 · 01/08/2017 14:52

Not idiots just numerous people struggling to understand the nub of your issue.

If you are unable to trust the judgement of your sister and parents that is a separate issue.

PerspicaciaTick · 01/08/2017 14:52

Do you speak to your parents like that when they don't agree with you?

TrinityTaylor · 01/08/2017 15:03

Bwahahaha
Unless you are a member of some sort of christian cult?

Pallisers · 01/08/2017 15:04

You do know your parents are possibly also having sex for their own pleasure??

WatchingFromTheWings · 01/08/2017 15:08

You question your sisters morality with manners like that?? 😆

londonrach · 01/08/2017 15:24

Your adult sister is sleeping with her boyfriend. Yabu

Whynotnowbaby · 01/08/2017 15:38

Ok it sounds like this is really upsetting for you but none of us can understand what the problem is (and unless you join some sort of Puritan forum you will probably get the same response) rather than being rude to us all why not try to explain what the problem is. Is it

A)you don't think anyone should have sex before marriage?
B) you don't think anyone unmarried should have sex in the same house a child is in?
C) you have a problem with this man which you have not mentioned in op?
D) something else?

C might be reasonable but we can't really respond to that if you don't tell us what the problem is. Calling us all idiots is not going to garner sympathy (and if you think about it, it is statistically unlikely that we all are!)

Anatidae · 01/08/2017 15:40

Can you explain exactly what bothers you? Is she being exhibitionist about having sex or something?

SummerMummy88 · 01/08/2017 15:41

Your sister lives with your parents, your a guest in their home as long as your parents are ok with it in their house then I don't think you can complain.

SummerMummy88 · 01/08/2017 15:42

You are not your*

BingoFlamingos · 01/08/2017 15:42

mim I'm pretty sure most of us would offer support if we could we just don't understand what the fuckthe problem is!

Anecdoche · 01/08/2017 15:53

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

claraschu · 01/08/2017 15:57

Are you aware how your 4 children were conceived?

Manijo · 01/08/2017 16:48

Sounds like you either need to suck it up OP or pack your bags up and 4 kids and head back to Espagna

FeralBeryl · 01/08/2017 17:23

Mim, Mim,
Don't be dim,
The problem's you,
It isn't him.

Greenglassteacup · 01/08/2017 17:27

Who are you calling idiots? Fucking ridiculous

PortiaCastis · 01/08/2017 17:31

You've got 4kids so you've been at it a lot so why shouldn't your sister in her own home. If you don't like the situation find somewhere else to stay.
Take it you have sex with your OH with dc in the house

heateallthebuns · 01/08/2017 18:15

Lol at beryl!!
I don't see the problem either. I've got three kids. On Friday we're going to stay with my sis and her husband. She has four kids in their 20s three of whom will be there and will have their boyfriends / girlfriends to stay. I love them all and so do the kids!! It's a happy busy house! N.b my elderly dad lives there as well.

PigletWasPoohsFriend · 01/08/2017 20:07

I've wasted my time on here. I'm obviously talking to a load of idiots.

Well @mim2007 aren't you a delight! and stuck in the past century

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