Hi I'm Zena, i have older kids, but.....
I'm a new Nan, wow things have changed since my kids were small.
My Daughter is like 'no mum you do it this or that way' lol
At the beginning as were both living with me, i will admit it was hard letting my daughter do things for her baby girl, as i wanted to take over. then i learnt to relax and do things for myself instead of my kids.
Now she has a place of her own and its great i have my time and i can see them both whenever i want to as they're only round the corner.
Love being a Nan she's my little chubba, shes the best thing thats happened to me, well apart from my kids x