Hi
I am new to this and would like some advice.
I have been with my partner for 6 years and we both have children from previous relationships.
He had a vasectomy after his last child and did not tell me about this until later on in our relationship.
When we first met he said he'd love to have a child as long as it was a girl as he has all boys, I thought all my christmas' had come at once.
He told me to book consultations for a reversal, yet he'd always cancel them.
This went on for years and a lot of my money has been wasted due to this.
I have a child of my own who I love dearly, yet I feel a longing for another child and always thought that this is how relationships are meant to progress?
Lately he has been saying that I should leave him and that he loves me enough for me to do so to fulfill my need to be a mother, yet I don't want to leave as I have invested a lot in to this relationship.
What should I do?