Just been told we failed a schedule 4 assesment as we work full time and as baby was born prem may have medical needs but she is 9 mths old and doing fine will just will need regular check ups for now. I have her 2 yrs old brother my grandson on SGO already and wanted them to stay together now they say she will be adopted but I can make private application for don't understand how is adoption in her best interest and how do o make private application help