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How am I supposed to survive new benefit rules

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Canaryhead · 19/03/2025 14:19

Maybe I’m in the minority but I’m under 22. I am also severely impacted by parts of my autism, I have high and low functioning aspects.my executive functioning can become severely impacted depending on how many ‘spoons’ I’ve spent, and then I can’t care for myself. I can articulate myself, not always but I have had humiliating public meltdowns that have drawn attention to me. It also causes me to self harm. I know about the spoon theory and certain adaptions that can make things easier for me, but my needs mean it’s easy to push me over the limit.
(just a note to ask if there are any recommended books on preventing these episodes)
I am estranged from my parents, I left home at 16.
I was working with someone to get qualifications but the funding for it in my local area was shut down.
under the new universal credit rules, I will be £400 a month worse off if I don’t look for a job, if I’m honest I don’t think there will be anyone who would hire me.I’ll lose my rent element and I’ll lose the money I use to pay for my support worker.
So now I am worried sick

HebeMumsnet · 19/03/2025 20:04

Evening, everyone.

We just wanted to pop by with a reminder that no one can ever really know what life is like in someone else's shoes, so please think carefully before posting.

We know that stories like this are in the news today and people want to discuss the idea of cutting benefits, but this OP has chosen to post on the Mumsnetters with Special Needs boards (rather than Chat, AIBU or In The News) so we think she should be able to expect a certain level of support and a gentle approach.

Advice can sometimes come in the form of 'tough love' but please just try to bear in mind that when you're in fear or at your lowest ebb, some kid glove treatment never hurts. Thank you for all the messages of support and advice. There are lots of really good ideas here and we're sure the OP appreciates that, too. Lots of things for her to look into here.

Good luck, OP. We hope one of the suggestions here turns something useful up for you.

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