It's been a stressful week! I have what I suspect is undiagnosed asd (formal diagnosis is borderline personality - I strongly believe it isn't). My dh is working till ridiculously late I.e as late as 1am most night at the moment. Two of our kids have asd one very severely autistic and he wants to go out with our friends at the weekend. I don't want to go as I need some downtime alone, the dad is very strict even with my kids (bearing in mind two have autism) and frankly I cannot be bothered to attempt conversation. Aibu to ask him just to take the big two?!