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So from the info in this thread, I've managed to glean that about 300 babies per year in the UK out of the 700,000 that are born sadly die of SIDS. Of these deaths, it seems 117 babies die in their parents bed, but it doesn't seem possible to say under what conditions this bedsharing was occurring.
For example numbers of babies whose parents are smokers, number of babies whose mothers smoked in pregnancy, number of prem babies, number of parents who drank alcohol and bedshared on the night their baby died, number of families where one/both parent took drugs (legal or illegal) and bedshared on night baby died, number of babies whose parents who used duvets, number of babies babies who were not exclusively breastfed, number of babies who used dummies, ill babies or those with underlying medical conditions etc etc.
As an exclusively breastfeeding and 'following the guidelines to the letter' bedsharing mother, who does not use dummies, what I would want to know is:
The average SIDS rate for the UK population is 0.4 per 1000 live births, i.e. 1 in every 2500 babies born will die of SIDS . But, under the feeding/sleeping/lifestyle arrangements I choose for my baby (described above) the rate is X per 1000 live births, i.e. 1 in every Y babies born will die of SIDS.
From what the prof has said, Y will be higher for the conditions I have described, than for a family that does everything exactly the same as me except the baby is in the parents room in a safe cot/crib and consistently uses a dummy (giving say a 1 in Z risk). The latter is my understanding of FSID's recommended lowest risk conditions. However, to make an informed decision I still need to know what the 2 figures (Y and Z) are for comparison so I can assess for myself the relative risk. It would also be interesting to be able to compare each of these unknown figures with the average rate for the UK, as they may well both be rarer than 1 in 2500, given that the average risk includes front sleepers, smokers etc -factors that are known to be big risks. Only when we know the estimated figures can parents make genuinely informed choices as to what levels of risk they deem acceptable. Without these, we make our decisions solely (rather than primarily ), on what we instincitely feel or believe is best for our individual family.