hi would welcome some female advice words of wisdom on this terrible situation me and my 2 kids find ourselves in.my partner and i split up she used to be the best mum in the world to our kidsshe has started drinking she never used to drink staying out at friends houses all night she said i can have the kids they have been here 2 weeks they are only 8/9 they miss there mum so much she reuses to even speak to me even though the split was over absouloutly nothing,ie no violence drugs cheating etc she is 41 has lost approx3/4 dress sizes and was very moral and a fantastic mum this change is totally baffling she says there no one else and she is doing this for her in the meantime our 2 kids are heartbroken 1 said to me the other night daddy what has happened to our mum ,she used to treasure us . we are all so confused.