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Look After Your Legs

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NoisySnail · 31/03/2024 23:54

I was in a cafe today and over heard an elderly woman talking to younger friends about getting older. She said the best advice she could give is to look after your legs as they are so important for mobility. But annoyingly she did not explain what she meant by this, and I could hardly ask!

So does anyone know how we can look after our legs?

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NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:09

@TheSilenceofTheMajority my mother had lots of skin issues all her life. She had bad eczema as a child and in later life had breast abscesses and vaginal lichenises. Good skin, which I seem to have, is under rated.

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Squirrelsnut · 01/04/2024 12:10

Does anyone know what good results are for a 60 second 'sit to stand' test is, please? I've been Googling for ages but I'm still unclear. I'm 53 and did 33.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:13

KitKatChunki · 01/04/2024 12:07

I had terrible varicose veins in pregnancy and paid to have them removed a few years after birth. The pain was immense, like walking with knives running up each leg. Walking became so hard I put on a couple of stone, which of course doesn't help (was only 12st but still every bit makes it harder to do anything). Some people do just have bad vein walls apparently, so knowing about this (checking for any popping veins on the legs) and getting advice if they are sore already is my advice. I have had it done again since as they do grow back, although not as badly, and would honestly say it has changed my life. I have a dog and do miles and miles a day now which would never have happened when I was in pain.

I think this is what happens as a lot of people get older. They get something that makes walking and being active painful, so understandably do less. I get sciatica and have to be careful not to aggravate it.

These kind of threads are always full of ultra fit people who do masses of exercise. But I think there needs to be more advice for those of us who are not going to be going to a gym but want to remain functionally active.

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pickledandpuzzled · 01/04/2024 12:24

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 11:57

The not sitting for more than an hour is a hugely privileged position. Loads of people working are stuck at their desks working until the next break. Yes you can stand up and sit down, but that is all. And the advice really is to have 10 minutes movement every hour.

I have a condition made worse by sitting, and a sedentary job. Every 30 mins I get up and go to the loo or make a hot drink. While the kettle boils I do stuff. I try and do the movement but as fast as I can so I both minimise the time away from my desk and also maximise the blood flow as I trot up and down the stairs.

Thank you for the thread- it’s postponed my bungalow buying, if nothing else! I’ll be trying out the various suggestions people have shared.

I’m 55 and have various health issues but am determined not to get sofa bound again as I was a few years ago. My bum fell off, quite literally! I’m now flat at the back having had a big bum my whole life. It doesn’t seem to want to come back, either!

pickledandpuzzled · 01/04/2024 12:28

So things I didn’t know that I’ll take away from this thread-

Look after leg skin. I’m lazy about skin care but have had issues with apron skin in the past.

Look up the sit stand test and assess myself.

There’s a kneel to stand equivalent which is easier than the cross legged to stand one.

I’m going to dig out the old functional exercises I used to have to do and restart to make sure I’m still staying fit.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:31

@pickledandpuzzled I am glad you are in a job that allows you to do that. I would have got disciplined if I went ti the loo or to make a hot drink every 30 minutes.
I have seen people with flat bums but didn't realise they were not born like that. I know your bum is the biggest muscle in your body.

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pickledandpuzzled · 01/04/2024 12:32

Here. Anyone want a bit of accountability as they work on this kind of thing? We’ll all be different ages and stages, but mutual support as we work on it would be nice! (54, chronic illness).

Knee to Standing Get Ups

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Jellyx · 01/04/2024 12:33

Yes. Lots of hip breaks happen as people don't have strength / stability 'stepping down' - so doing step ups + downs and massively helpful.

pickledandpuzzled · 01/04/2024 12:34

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:31

@pickledandpuzzled I am glad you are in a job that allows you to do that. I would have got disciplined if I went ti the loo or to make a hot drink every 30 minutes.
I have seen people with flat bums but didn't realise they were not born like that. I know your bum is the biggest muscle in your body.

I’m lucky to work from home. If I don’t move, my neck and shoulders seize up and I lose mobility quite severely.

I can’t sit though a concert, a film, a long conversation… I have to swap seats when I meet friends as focussing on them as we chat is too immobile.

nodogz · 01/04/2024 12:35

Don't forget your hips either. I'm reasonably fit but had to step over a wall about 1m high and was shocked at how little control I had lifting my leg up high on an angle.

I have worked hard on my squats and it feels fantastic to hinge up from low sofas and chairs without using my arms.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:36

I know balance is a big issue. But so is being sensible. I know if I try and carry too much I am liable to drop something. I have seen older people get badly injured when they try and do something they may have been able to do 20 years before, but is now dangerous for them.

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Abracadabra12345 · 01/04/2024 12:40

Thank you for the thread- it’s postponed my bungalow buying, if nothing else! I’ll be trying out the various suggestions people have shared.

I remember having to push my mum up our stairs when she came to stay and she was only in her 70s and otherwise fit but I saw the effects of moving into a bungalow.

I try to run up and down our stairs (3 floors) as part of every day life and more often than I "need" to. No car so I do a lot of everyday fast walking. Once I'd increased the stair- climb, I've discovered I can now get up from kneeling without using hands. Every little helps as they say!

This is inspiring so thank you

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:40

My friend needs a hip replacement and has bought one of those chairs that lifts you up. She says it is fantastic. But I worry it will simply mean she loses muscle mass. Although I know its hard when you are in pain.

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NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:43

Just checked. I can get up from kneeling without using my hands, but it was harder getting up using my left leg. I will try and do this every morning and evening from now on. I know small things every day can make a big difference.
I will start moisturising the skin on my legs as well. I know skin integrity is very important.

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Zodfa · 01/04/2024 12:50

Don't bloody drive everywhere. Many in the current older generation have been in the habit for fifty years of hopping in the car for any journey over half a mile. No wonder they struggle to walk now!

Houseplantmad · 01/04/2024 12:52

@NoisySnail have a look at Annie Deadman fitness on YouTube. She’s all about strength training for healthy ageing.

drspouse · 01/04/2024 12:55

Weight bearing exercise as well as flexibility.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:58

@drspouse the flexibility one worries me. I used to do exercises to stay flexible but can no longer do them. Even when I try gentle ones it always sets off my sciatica again and makes walking difficult for a few weeks until it settles down.

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NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:03

@Zodfa I do not recognise that at all. I and many others my age were not brought up with a family car and were used to walking everywhere.

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quizzys · 01/04/2024 13:03

I'm approaching 67 now. I walk every day except Sunday which is a day of cooking and hosting mostly and little rest!

I can stand up from a sitting position without using hands or arms no problem. I can get up from the floor but using hands, any other method is just not worth it at my stage in life and smacks of masochism! I have a fall alert on my phone. Hopefully will not need it anytime soon.

When walking I regularly stop at my favourite shops and often carry back up to 10kg in my backpack which evenly distributes the weight. I hardly notice it, and it does help upper body.

My motto is "use it or lose it". Be active every day even if it is housework or gardening. No need for a gym or complicated exercise routines, well for me anyway. I can walk for miles without any problems so I consider myself very lucky and not obsessed either, I listen to my bones.

quizzys · 01/04/2024 13:05

Oh and I was advised to increase my protein intake as much as possible to preserve muscle mass. Get advice on this if you have kidney issues though.

WearyAuldWumman · 01/04/2024 13:20

fatandunfitandmidforties · 01/04/2024 11:20

Thank you OP for starting this thread, agree it's been very interesting

Also like the idea of being 60 (ish) with 20 years of weight bearing behind me, rather than as I am a
Feeling like a big lump who has let it go, thinking about how much I have to gain in next few years

I too have watched my fairly fit dad become immobile so so quickly after just one infection so am conscious that fitness is so important

And finally to @WearyAuldWumman I just wanted to say how sorry I am that this happened and that you weren't properly supported and sending very un MNetty hugs to you

Thank you. That's very much appreciated.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:20

I very rarely encounter stairs these days except in my house. In the days of the department stores I used to take the stairs instead of the escalators. But these days all the shops I go into are on one level.

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WearyAuldWumman · 01/04/2024 13:26

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 11:54

@BogRollBOGOF Of course good muscle tone can help compensate for arthritis. But when it gets bad it is going to affect you anyway. I think the issue is more the pain that makes people not want to be active because it hurts too much.

I have this problem with the standing from a seat exercise - the knees hurt like blazes, but there's no getting round it. The genetic condition apparently triggers arthritis and that's getting worse. There's also the fact that the condition means that my knees spontaneously dislocate and lock.

The knees caused a spectacular fall downstairs at work (a secondary school) one time. I was badly bruised, but otherwise ok. However, I couldn't drive for a couple of days because I was so sore. (Hips and back were rather colourful.)

Got back into work on the Monday. Two S4/Year 11 boys came running up to me: "Mrs AuldWumman! Are you okay?"

"I'm fine, boys. That's kind of you to ask."

Just then, their pal came running up: "Aww! I just missed it!"

At least I provided entertainment!

VeryQuaintIrene · 01/04/2024 13:29

Another vote for good compression socks - I'm prone to lymphodema and they have changed my life.