My lovely Em has been given new AD's and is now the stroppy, loving, argumentative cow she always was!! There have been some awful, hard times when my lovely son has broke his heart in front of me. In the end I became the dreaded MIL!! I told Dan - 'Get up to Ems mums, get your son and bring him to see me....I havent seen him for 3 weeks and I adore, love and miss him.'
Off my firstborn baby went and brought my firstborn grandson to see me. I thought my heart would break in two. I told my son to tell Em what would be happening that day. I think when depression hits you cant ask that person to make a decision - you have to decide for them.
Since my son took charge everything has been brilliant. Our lovely Em is enjoying being a mummy and is doing a fab, fab job. Life is improving for all of us....not trying to pretend we have the magic formula just happy with our lives.