The title sounds way too deep so firstly, I apologise. I have few places I can rant and have never posted here but feel as though I can here? I have five year old twins, one girl and one boy. My boy’s immune system is lower than Atlantis (emo millenial term if anyone gets that lol) and my girl still gets Illnesses but can manage to fight it off without medicine. It. Is. Constant. I cannot explain the pure anxiety and fear I get when they are ill, I know they will be okay I just truly assume the worst. We do vitamins, we do fruit and hidden veg. I just feel like they bounce it back and forth CONSTANTLY!
My husband is a self employed house improvement builder type person (unofficial title) as well as another job that’s more consistent. So whenever he gets work from his passion it is celebrated and I implore him to do it. However, over the entire Christmas period while the twins have been poorly he has only had Christmas Day and Boxing Day off. He leaves early in the morning and comes back after bed time. I feel selfish for feeling cross but truth be told, I feel cross. I need help and it just gets a bit tricky. Any help to build the immune system or just a friendly shoulder would be greatly appreciated.