Listen to this. Met her and my brother in the pub as normal this morning, talked about what was going on. Then my brother said I here you went for a blood test yesterday, whats wrong? I said Doc wants to check me for rheumatoid athritus and get this sore on my leg checked. My Mum then said, "see, your getting old like me, now you know what I have to put up with". So I said, yes Mum, but I have three young kids and can`t afford to feel like this. To which she replied, "well thats your fault, it was your choice to have them"! I was soooooooooooo angry, I wanted to cry, so I said, Yes Mum, but can you remeber why I had them, my life was upside down at the time. It then went quiet! Am I just being overly sensitive?