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d'y ever wish the flying shagpile could take us to faliraki

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galaxymummy · 05/03/2008 22:14

its her are you

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HarrogateMum · 11/03/2008 14:05

Yes, please do Triplets.

shabster · 11/03/2008 14:18

hiya trips - would love to see the poem. Tigger has been upset by what sounds like a major bullying moment on MN - something to do with COD? I was uneasy with about 4 of the threads I added to over the weekend - I wasn't sure why but I understand a bit more now.

There are numptys everywhere in life - even on a place like Mumsnet where we should all be in the 'same gang' trying to help each other through the most difficult job in the world.

I have resorted to begging on facebook so I will try threatening her with the naughty step next time I send her a message

Egg · 11/03/2008 15:24

Am very sad about Tigs. She is so lovely. I didn't see the stuff she mentioned and am so upset that she has been bullied. At least we can all keep in touch with her and hopefully lure her back .

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ChopsTheDuck · 11/03/2008 15:53

I can't believe anyone would be mean to tiggs. Really hoping she comes back soon.

Sorry trips, but lol at the 1001!!

at your ds ruby. I suspect it might have been the cause of ds2's black eye actaully! It seemed to come up from nowhere.

ChopsTheDuck · 11/03/2008 15:54

ooh, yes, lets see his poem.

Egg · 11/03/2008 15:59

I would love to see Matthew's poem trips

shabster · 11/03/2008 17:03

The Tomster has sent two love letters messages on facebook to Tigs. He was very mad when I told him what had happened

Everybody Ok?

TigsDontGoPleaseStay · 11/03/2008 17:14

Ha ha. Guess who??

shabster · 11/03/2008 17:36

Ha Snorris funny name tomster

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MarsLady · 11/03/2008 18:38

I would love to see Matthew's poem as well!

Gotta run. Antenatal class now. Just made a chocolate cake! Didn't have any limes so couldn't make Squonk's chocolate and lime cake.

C'mon tigs... you know you're lurking. Come back come back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

largeginandtonic · 11/03/2008 19:38

Oh yes lets see the poem my lovely

Now did you lot know i am FAMOUS???? I made the front page of MN in the TIP bit

triplets · 11/03/2008 19:43

Hi, this poem I found in Matthews room in Feb 94, 4 months before he died, he was in his room on the pc, I read it, was shocked and asked him why he had written it, he just looked up and said, "its only a poem, I might use it for school". I kept it. Four days after he died, the vicar was here talking about the service, I suddenly remembered the poem, got it and gave it to Bruce to read. He looked at me and said, "well I happen to know he was proven wrong on Thursday morning". The poem was read at the service by his best friend John. To my knowledge I can not ever remember telling Matthew that if I had a little girl I would call her Rebecca, but it was the name we had always wanted.

The first stage of man is the shortest of all,
When you are a baby and dribble and bawl.
You sleep every day, and scream every night
To wake up your parents to turn on the light.

You slowly grow up and now are a child,
A pocket sized person so gentle and mild.
You start off at school in black shoes and shirt
Its all work from now, all pain and hurt.
You continue at school for a very long time,
I`m still here now, writing this rhyme.

When you leave school you`re very mature,
Off now to college to study some more.
You work really hard with the rest of the mob,
To get a degree to get you a job.
You come out at last with new found aggression,
To hunt and to dig to find a profession.

You now get a job, it has to be manly,
To bring in some money to bring up a family.
You have a few children, called Rebecca and John,
Who go on the journey that you have just gone.
You keep at your job for most of your life,
So do your children, so does your wife.

You retire then at sixty, tired and bleak,
To live on a pension, a pittance a week.
You keep on at home and think of the mob
You stayed with in childhood to get a good job.

You think of fond memories as life comes to an end,
Of all the old fashion that were all the trend.
Its all history now, there`s nothing no more,
No light in the tunnel, a darkened closed door.
You let yourself go, and say the last call
You now are oblivion.........its the end of it all.

Matthew David Peace 1994

I still cannot read this without crying when I read the lines

You continue at school for a very long time,
I`m still here now, writing this rhyme.

and

You have a few children called Rebecca and John,
Who go on the journey that you have just gone.

We had the poem printed and sold it at his concerts and made £200 which we donated to the Evelina Fund at Guys hospital.

largeginandtonic · 11/03/2008 19:44

Are you back then Tigs, what happened. I missed most of it. I always miss it!

largeginandtonic · 11/03/2008 19:46

Oh TRips weeping as i read it, what an incredibly thoughtful and insightful little lad.

shabster · 11/03/2008 19:53

Trips - you were a lucky mum to have him, even for a short while. He lived HIS DASH.

Thank you for sharing

Lost for words......... sagapo my friend

triplets · 11/03/2008 19:56

Hi Shabby.....I am trying not to feel sad, but that poem always makes me. How is Tomster?

triplets · 11/03/2008 19:58

Back later...........

frumpygrumpy · 11/03/2008 20:07

I took half a glass of wine and too long to catch up and now DP has shouted "teasoot" for me....... I will return.

Thank you Kelly for your note about your DD and her letters. I am honoured you said that and delighted she is finding a way to talk about it with you. Much love to you both sweetheart, you're a lovely mum xxxx.

Triplets, that poem is fantastic. So mature. He is one fabulous boy. I suspect he is still living his dash. Love him to bits I do.

frumpygrumpy · 11/03/2008 20:08

Shabs, your Tom's poem (age 4) gave me the big wobbly, wet eyes. Loving it!

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TomstersBrideToBe · 11/03/2008 20:19

I'll be back

shabster · 11/03/2008 20:54

Make room for my lardy arse pert behind ladies.

What a strange day. Tomster is sooooo much better. I allowed him to go on Facebook to talk to Tigs - the boy has got it bad for his own Mrs Robinson.

Think the storm has got to us - the wind is a swirling around the kilts frumpster DH is in a foul mood - I may put the toadstools in his chilli con carne if he carries on. Worrying and a fretting about not having enough money to go on holiday.....I keep going in the kitchen and swearing at him in Greek

Had a panic attack today - for no reason, it just jumped out of my knickers and grabbed me by the throat - have been taking beta blockers for the last two years to combat the mental panic attack moments. But this one - I bet it was from Glasgow frumpster - It got me.

HarrogateMum · 11/03/2008 20:54

Triplets. The poem is truly beautiful.

TomstersBridetobe - are you who I think you are??????????

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