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Sugartown79 · 08/09/2019 08:15

So sex....or lack of! We have 12 month old twin boys and have probably had sex about 3 times since they were born. Coupled with the fact that they are ivf so my husband was terrified to have sex with me while I was pregnant in case he'd break me or the babies, ha ha! So really it's been 3 times in about 2 years. I don't think either of us are massively bothered, the twins sleep OK but still wake up for feeds in the night so my husband does the shift until midnight and then I do midnight until they wake up. He gets a Saturday lie in, I get one on a Sunday so basically whenever we're in bed together we're asleep! Any else in the same situation? Not looking for advice as such, just wondering if this is normal for tired twin parents? xx

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Heartofglass12345 · 08/09/2019 18:50

I'm sure it's normal. My sex drive isn't what it used to be, and my kids sleep all night (although I think I have sleep apnoea) so I get really tired. Have you mentioned it to him? Sometimes me or my husband will say oh we better have sex one day soon lol. We usually do it about once a week, sometimes twice. But he doesn't ever pressure me or me him, it would be a massive turn off!

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