Twins a re hardwork

[Tashakuf4]

Sometimes I just wonder how different just having one mouth to feed, one nappy to change, one toy to buy, one outfit to shop for would have been. I love my twin girls to bits but my goodness its hard. Raising them on my own with a full time job hasn't been easy. I find the key is to have a routine. Its the only way I have survived.

I wonder however, Is there a way to be sure I am loving them and bonding well with both of them the same?

I get what you mean re the wondering.

Mine started school today and I can't help but think I would have been one of the more upset parents at drop off if i had had just the one. Tthe last four years have been at times a constant firefight bbetween refereeing them fighting, bad sleep, illness yada yada. Of course there have been briliant times and lots of them but yes, twins ARE hardwork, and I don't think anyone with one really understands it.

Hats off to you for doing it on your own too. Do you have anyone who could take one of them for an hour or so so you can get some one on one time? This has really helped with mine.

i had a singleton after twins,it was a breeze and i was a single parent and i really enjoyed the baby/toddler stage with the singleton