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AtLongLast · 12/01/2012 23:35

OTT / self-indulgent I know, but Toddler Twin Tantrums..... aaargh! Just as well they're so cute too. Ds2 was v funny today wiggling his bum singing uh, uh Bobby' in response to me dancing round the kitchen to Bobby's girl'... Grin

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ladymuckbeth · 12/07/2012 15:44

When If we get those beds Kate (Wink) I would go for the white wash; it looks really nice IMO. Do you think those rails look like it would be hard for them to get in/out? Could be a good thing if they would have to actually climb over the rail to get out? Of course my main motivation with these things is that the child stays put once they're in beds!

One thing I like about the Leander bed is that it includes a mattress - so £370 for a bed and mattress isn't too ridiculous (let's forget about the rail for now Grin), especially since it includes delivery.

Can't believe how easy it's been with J to drop the dummy. I mean, not without it's stresses of course, but it's been yet another hurdle which I realised I'd built up massively in my head. I think she's almost forgotten about it already...

KateShmate · 12/07/2012 22:38

Firstly mucky - you and Juliet should be super super proud! She's done absolutely brilliantly giving it up so well, and you've done just as brilliantly in helping her forget about her beloved num nums! They do seem to just forget about them completely quite quickly.

Onto beds.. Grin

whilst searching for some more pics of the safety rail, look at this <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=leander+junior+bed+safety+rail&start=312&num=10&hl=en&biw=930&bih=440&tbm=isch&tbnid=fmPh1BvI5pZj6M:&imgrefurl=www.getprice.com.au/Ubabub-Pod-Cot-Junior-Bed-Gpnc_734--52839659.htm&docid=oj3X8sa2-2hJEM&imgurl=www.getprice.com.au/images/uploadimg/403/_1_UBPod500x200.jpg&w=500&h=200&ei=KkH_T7KBDMf80QXLy-T6Bg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=444&vpy=169&dur=8&hovh=142&hovw=355&tx=237&ty=89&sig=103708346385141147733&page=22&tbnh=67&tbnw=168&ndsp=15&ved=1t:429,r:8,s:312,i:80" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">uber cute cot bed-> junior bed I came across! Isn't it adorable!

Back to the Leander bed, looking at <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=leander+junior+bed&hl=en&biw=930&bih=440&tbm=isch&tbnid=FqL_Yzb7XxSBLM:&imgrefurl=www.littlefashiongallery.com/en/shop/leander-juniorbed-white-perm/&docid=4pZSiijqidkQLM&imgurl=www.littlefashiongallery.com/media/photos/sized/photos/LEANDER_LITJUNIOR26_BLANC3_d700.jpg%253Fcat%253D2&w=700&h=700&ei=UkL_T7zMKofM0QWL8oT7Bg&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=290&sig=103708346385141147733&page=5&tbnh=123&tbnw=124&start=55&ndsp=15&ved=1t:429,r:14,s:55,i:295&tx=67&ty=52" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">this image it does come quite high; maybe not to stop them climbing out, but more to deter them Wink

Yep, think we will go for the white wash. You're right about the bargain that we are getting that is that the mattress is included! Will remind DH of that too!
He has basically said that we can have them, yippee Grin

tartiflette · 17/07/2012 15:51

Hi!

Well, have had an interesting couple of weeks during which I was sent for a chest x ray and it became apparent I had pneumonia... Nice! No wonder I felt deathly. Poor DH has been run ragged sorting the girls out and working every hour God sends, I was completely bed ridden for a week and then had a further week where I couldn't do much. Am ok now really but taking it pretty easy, have got this week off work as well, as although I could probably have limped in, it's the last week of term so not much goes on really and I get tired very quickly andamnowaddictedtodaytimetv

Need to read back and see what you've all been up to (though a quick glance suggests the bed-obsession is still burning bright Grin)

mucky are you on holiday now?

Love to all Smile

AtLongLast · 17/07/2012 19:42

Blimey Tarti, pneumonia dontcha know it's mid-July? . Not quite the mild case of tonsillitis you hoped it would be. Poor you but glad you're on the mend & hope it doesn't rumble on for too long. Poor dh too. It is hard when they're chucked in needing to sort out everything.

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Cerubina · 17/07/2012 20:10

Just a quickie as preparing supper but I'm really pleased to see you back tarti and huge commiserations on the pneumonia. As if tonsillitis wasn't bad enough! You must have felt shocking to stay in bed for a week, I can imagine the instinct to get up and help out would have been hard to ignore if you'd had the strength for it (though you may be less susceptible to emotional blackmail than me!). Really hope you are back to full power soon.

Girls, I am knocking on the door of my 40th birthday now. I have just two days left of my thirties . I really don't know why it bothers me so much but it really really does. I just can't figure out how I can be 40, it's something that only happens to other people and there has clearly been an adding up error. How can it be 18 years since I left uni?! Anyone got any gin?

Hope everyone else is well and happy and those on hols are enjoying them! X

AtLongLast · 17/07/2012 20:20

Aww Cerubina, sort of understand. It was dp's 40th yesterday & mine in a couple of weeks Shock. I always dreaded reaching it & still being childless so I feel I can breathe a sigh of relief now we have the kiddies but have to say it just feels all a bit... surreal? 40, me? That sounds -old grown-up and far away from the age I feel. Have you decided how you're commiserating-- celebrating?

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KateShmate · 17/07/2012 20:57

Ohh Tarti you poor thing :( Pneumonia is horrible, so make sure you look after yourself because it can be terribly nasty. DD2 spent a few days in PICU as a newborn with the same thing, she was really poorly. Really glad to hear that your DH is looking after you well :)

Sorry for the bed-obsession.. just miss all the posts from the last few days!

But just quickly.. the bed obsession is nearly over as our beds arrived today!! We didn't have time to put them up before DTrips went to bed, but 2 have been made already and so their first night will be tomorrow. They are so so bloody excited Grin (Am sure we will relive said obsession if when mucky orders her beds!)

40 isn't old you 2! Although saying that, it wasn't that long ago that it was my 30th, so I may have changed my tune when its my turn! What have you both got planned? Something v.exciting I hope!

Cerubina are you off anywhere? We had meant to book somewhere disneyland for a holiday, but just never got round to it :( I may hassle DH for a last minute trip!

AtLongLast · 17/07/2012 22:56

Haha, we don't do `very exciting' here Kate! Dp didn't want to mark his at all really. We had his parents here at the weekend & a visit from his bro's family & had a really lovely time in the end. Lots of food & just bimbling around with the kids. Went to the zoo & swimming. Got kites for from the boys so we gave him them early & we did kite-flying on Sunday which was really lovely. We made him disgustingly horrible cards, I bought him a driving experience which he's really looking forward to and first 3 Ice Age films which the boys are enjoying Grin. We were going to go out for a curry last night but the boys are a bit grumpy with another cold thing so I cooked his fave, got some alcohol in & made him a bday cake. He felt spoiled & that was the main thing - he would have hated a party.

For me... we're possibly ordering my sewing machine this week. It's all downhill from here Grin.

Beds have arrived - how exciting!

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ladymuckbeth · 18/07/2012 14:55

Damn, wrote a long post last night but it was eaten.

tarti - so sorry to hear of your health woes but glad to hear you're on the mend, and that you've been looked after well. How much longer do you reckon you can boss DH around for? Wink

Congrats on impending 40th birthdays. Cerub don't fret, in a few years months you'll wonder what all the fuss was about. I can empathise with ALL on this one - I remember all too well worrying I'd never have any kids, so do at least now think that I've managed to by some sheer fluke end up with two children and a vaguely functional husband, could be worse!

We are indeed here on hols - a mixed bag thus far. Hotel is superb and just perfect for the kids, despite the frankly rubbish weather. Has childcare, pool, indoor soft play, fantastic kids meals which actually works as a system, right by the beach, decent grub for the adults... all in all it's a brilliant set up although it's a bit London-on-sea but who am I to complain about that? Hmm On the 'cons' list Juliet came down with a dreadful cold/cough the day before we left and it is no exaggeration to say we had the worst two nights' sleep in living memory once we rocked up here on Sunday. Sunday night = less than two hours total with her coughing/screaming all night long; Monday night = maybe 2-3 in half hour bursts. We were all in a family room and they were in cots which they were a bit too big for. Juliet screamed so much, all night long - in retrospect really not a good idea to have dropped that dummy at the point we did as I'm sure things would have been much better otherwise. Anyway we were total zombies yesterday morning and with Eve coming down with it too - chucked them in the childcare because we were incapable of doing anything else. Then spent the morning working out what to do because I don't think either of us could have faced another day of that. We've now moved to a bigger room with more separation between us all and had a better night's sleep last night, but we still haven't been able to use the pool and have had almost no energy to do anything. So annoying!!!

Kate - so how are the beds???!!! :)

KateShmate · 19/07/2012 20:17

Well, I am very very proud of my 3 little pea's!

Sooo, last night was our first night and they were quite hyper about new beds etc and so I though we may be 'tested' a bit. We made quite a big deal about how they were big girls now and so they got to put their teddies at the end of their bed, help tidy their beds etc etc. We read stories as usual on our bed and went into their room - their faces were like this --> Grin

We knew Emme wouldn't be a problem as she was hooked up to her machine. They got in bed and we just relayed how important it was to stay in beds etc. Good night kisses etc - there was a bit of giggling for a while etc, and then quiet. And then A appeared in the lounge with a very mischievous face and said 'We just want water mum!' (since when have they called me 'mum'?!). So went up and they all had a sip and then said, again, how they must stay in bed like big girls etc. And that was it! They stayed in there for the rest of the night!

Tonight they were super tired and so went to bed fine, about an hour ago we heard laughing again.
Went up and 3 are in E's bed.., like this 'hi mumma Grin '

There is a bit of pointing and shouting and accusing; I think as E can't really get out of bed, the other 2 decided to pay her a visit!

All over and done with within a few minutes and haven't heard a peep since.

It seems too good to be true!

LaVitaBellissima · 19/07/2012 20:20

On my last day of hols, in a Novotel in Beaune, France ATM.

Just wanted to say a big Happy Birthday to Cerubina and a big Get Well Soon to Tarti Thanks
Will update properly on the weekend but we've had a nice time even with horrendous teething whingebags and toddler meltdowns regularly.

LaVitaBellissima · 19/07/2012 20:22

Xposts Kate so cute!!!! Love your girls, I hope it lasts, even I used to do the water trick with my mum Grin

KateShmate · 19/07/2012 21:06

Oooh have lovely last day LVB !

Yep, I think they all do the water trick - once A had come down once though, I thought that they were all going to be taking it in turns to come down and ask for something to eat/tissue/toilet/cuddle/kiss/story etc etc.
Very happy! :)

Ahh yes, Big Big Happy Birthday Cerubina!!!!! Wine

Cerubina · 19/07/2012 22:29

Thanks ladies! 2 hours left of my thirties, nearly time to start dreading turning fifty Grin. Party on Saturday for lots of friends plus family, which should be fun if a bit lightweight these days, and a day off work tomorrow with DH (twins in nursery) so will be nice .

I know exactly what you mean about especially dreading 40 if you were still childless, ALL, and i do thank my lucky stars there as i have some friends in just that situation and always used to particularly feel my childlessness on anniversaries and special occasions. I think dreading 40 is just something that's bred in me for some reason, and maybe getting past it will be a relief in some way!

Glad you've had a good time LVB and have a safe drive back from Beaune (that's a fair old distance!) Hope the illness and sleeping situation has picked up by now mucky as that sounds pretty crap. Well done the triplets! Sounds as though you've managed the transition really well, Kate. Maybe having one of them physically restrained has its upsides if it keeps them in their room...a tip for the rest of us..? How are you tarti?

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Cerubina · 19/07/2012 22:54

I forgot to say (for anyone who's interested) - the picture frames are all up! Wooooo hoooo!

KateShmate · 20/07/2012 10:35

Ooohh thats lovely Cerubina - really hope you and DH have an amazing day today! Hope you get lots of treats! Party on Saturday sounds like it will be brilliant too :)

Really pleased that they've gone into beds so easily! I did say, further upthread, that I feel a bit of an evil mother saying that E being tethered down has its good points! Grin Will be much easier to change everything if she leaks too!
I'm not sure if I would recommend attaching your toddlers to a feeding machine to stop them getting out of bed, but if needs must! Grin Wink

Of course I am interested in picture frames! Seriously seriously impressed that they are all up! Bet they look fab!

We have that wedding this weekend (remember dress obsession?!) and am so glad its lovely weather! Girls look gorgeous in the boden dresses - although I bought them just before the sale and they are more than half price now! Shock
Am also pleased its good weather as my dress is very summery - may not have looked so great in torrential rain..

AtLongLast · 20/07/2012 13:52

Happy Birthday Cerubina! Hope you have a lovely day / party tomorrow & woo hoo - can cross the photos on wall' off the things to do before you're 40' list. I might even join you in that one.....! I expected to feel worse about turning 40 tbh. I feel slightly embarrassed about it, which is ridiculous really. I think it would be difficult to beat the depression I felt on my 35th at officially turning geriatric in terms of fertility.

Well done dTrips - I hope it lasts! V pleased we're not in beds at the mo cos ds2 is testing us at bedtime. We always make them snuggly, tuck them in & kiss them goodnight but ds2 is refusing to lie down. So we count to 3 and leave without making snuggly. Cue lots of wailing the minute we leave. & dp is such a softie that he went in twice to him last night.

We're just about to book another mega-family holiday - woo hoo! Double woo hoo that it's almost certainly a Haven caravan thing. Just need my parents to make a decision whether they want to come / share / have own van. Can imagine the angst it's causing in their house atm....

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AtLongLast · 23/07/2012 21:37

Thread-killer strikes again Smile.

How are you now Tarti? & the girls / bedtime Kate? Are you back now LadyM? Some fabby photos Grin. Have you embraced your new decade yet Cerubina?

Our holiday is booked - Cleethorpes in October, go us! I did get a voucher code for Very for booking so can sense Red Converse heading my way...!

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LaVitaBellissima · 23/07/2012 22:41

Sorry I keep meaning to update!

Hols were as good as they could be with 2 toddlers Grin

Returned home and within hours they both had high fevers, lots of snot, and I've been puked on a few times, life is good Sad

On a positive note I've won a mumsnet competition and am off back to France in August for a week at a chalet in the Alps, looks fab. we've also had some good news with our business, so fingers crossed it's on and up!

The Olympic torch goes through Richmond tomorrow, am unsure whether to try and get out and see it, or have another duvet day with my whinge bags. They are both still teething as well, boo hoo...

ALL def buy the red converse, love them. Was it you who had problems with DT's removing nappies? V does it all the time ATM, any tips? Also getting out the car seat, pram and opening the car door on the motorway yes, I now realise what child lock is for!

Tarti hope you are much better, now the girls hair is growing it is starting to show some redness, more apricot/ strawberry blonde my natural colour, I might be able to start doing some kind of hairstyle Smile love the photo's of your girls on FB

Cerubina Hope your birthday was fab, how was Chez Bruce? I've not been but heard great things. My close friends and I have had a long standing pact that we are doing a girls trip to Vegas when we hit 40. DP doesn't seem keen, but I am off!

Kate Big beds still going well? What did you wear to the wedding? I have one to go to in a few weeks and need to accessorise my new LK Bennett dress Confused

Mucky are you back from Cornwall? I hope you got a few nice days weather, did you like it?

We are currently trying to organise our Chistmas plans, aarrgghh it starts already!

Cerubina · 24/07/2012 10:58

Glad you had a good(ish) time LVB. Was it lovely weather and did you get a chance to relax by the pool at all? How was all the driving? Shame the girls are ill again, just like before you went! Hopefully a very quick summer cold (though I have something like it myself and feel rotten, I thought summer colds were supposed to be much easier going).

Congrats on winning the competition! That sounds like a great prize, lucky you. What's your business, I don't think I knew that you had one?

The torch passed close to us last night and DH took the twins along to see it (I was feeling too rough for it). Sadly only the merest glimpse of the tip of a flame visible on his phone's photos so hard to get an impression of it but at least he can say he was there.

Chez Bruce was lovely, have been 3 or 4 times now and each time it's good. It was really especially nice going out for lunch without high chairs and having a chance to eat food while hot, finish a conversation etc! It has obviously been a while.

The party on Saturday was also great and we had a couple of waitresses who dealt with greeting people and doling out food and drink. They were worth their weight in gold and there was so much less clearing up to do afterwards - highly recommended. I thought we had tons of food but halfway through the afternoon DH had to phone for 4 large pizzas and go up to the supermarket for more soft drinks! Shock Turns out people eat and drink A LOT.

What wasn't so perfect was the gap between our expectations of the afternoon and our parents'. I thought we'd got their buy in that DH and I were to be freed up to chat with friends and enjoy the party, with GPs swooping in to take care of S&R for us. None of them seemed to get the memo on that because S&R kept crying and every time they did, someone would deliver them back to us for taking care of, and frankly looking a bit grumpy about having to do that. AIBU to think that they should have done more to let us have some time off (particularly me) and that it's OK for a mum not to be 100% responsible for looking after her children at her birthday party? I don't know, maybe I was BU and should have prioritised GPs enjoying it too and S&R being with us?

Quite apart from that, I have now concluded that my MIL is hugely selfish. I got back from the hairdresser's on Saturday morning (in itself a quick scamper up there to get my hair put up rather than having it in a ramshackle pony tail as per every other day of the week so not exactly lounging around) and found DH and my parents hard at work in the garden while she sat indoors watching the golf. At every opportunity she ignored things in the same room that blatantly needed to be done (washing up, picking up a child, moving furniture, clearing the table, etc etc etc) in the interests of not lifting a finger. The only time she volunteered to do anything was making tea for people, which she wanted herself anyway. I found it pretty hard to tolerate, to be honest - she only ever wants to do the things that are easy, enjoyable, make her look good. Although she often offers to look after S&R for us I now know I could never let her because goodness knows what I'd come back to. She certainly wouldn't even think to change any nappies, feed them or watch out for dangers. She seriously can't even be asked to put a ready meal into a pre-heated oven - we have done so once and she couldn't do it without further coaching over the phone ("er, put the food into the part of the oven that's hot??" How do you make that task any simpler?)

Anyway, back to more positive things, had a lovely weekend and got some really lovely presents, and so far being 40 hasn't been too bad. It certainly helps that the weather is so fab down here and that the Olympics are coming - so exciting! I just can't bear the negativity spouted by people about them - would they really rather this country never got stuff like this that might actually make us look and feel good?

ladymuckbeth · 24/07/2012 21:11

Glad your 40th was good overall Cerub, especially Chez Bruce - I've always wanted to go but never made it there yet. Hear you on the GP situation - I found them far more helpful in the first few months when there was a real feel of 'all hands on deck' but the older the girls have become, the less chance there is of any real help with tasks such as feeding, changing, etc.

So we're finally back from our hols, having extended it by a couple of days to fit in a bit more of the sunny weather. Overall it wasn't too bad - two rainy days near the start but almost every other day was sunny enough to be on the beach. Girls loved it but of course I am now back and surrounded by what appears to be 28 loads of laundry scattered throughout.

We also appear to have come back with a child suffering with very bad nightmares, and in the midst of a hideous tantrumming phase which I'm sure is no coincidence. Juliet has turned into the most nightmarish, contrary, appallingly behaved (especially at the dinner table) child I could imagine and I've been tearing my hair out with thinking about how to handle it. She refuses almost everything, won't eat with that spoon and wants this spoon instead; wants to be carried until the second she determines that from a particular spot she wants to "do it for myself" and screams and screams if you so much as dare to carry her a step further. If you cut her food up she has a meltdown, if you leave it she has a meltdown, if you cut it too small or too large she has a meltdown Last night she woke up every half hour from 5am screaming in her sleep - it couldn't be more literal or sad, she is screaming things like "NOOOO EVE! IT'S MIIIIINE!", or "I WANT TO DO IT FOR MYSELF!!!!", wailing like a banshee and wanting a cuddle but the second you soothe her she collapses asleep in your arms and can be put back to bed - for about half an hour before it happens again.

It's early days with this 'phase' and I'm hoping it gets better but at the moment it's equally sad and frustrating and exhausting.... Confused

Ooh, thought I would share that I used this great online site to get some curtains made for the girls' room - had my eyes on <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?hl=en&biw=1421&bih=646&tbm=isch&tbnid=Niej69rrLJpivM:&imgrefurl=www.cabbagesandroses.com/fabric&docid=V3V4dDvJPCUp7M&imgurl=www.cabbagesandroses.com/media/catalog/category/Ellignton_Curtains_June_2012.jpg&w=780&h=611&ei=VwAPULDWNYiu0QXatYGIDg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=398&vpy=312&dur=34&hovh=198&hovw=253&tx=146&ty=97&sig=105550521792854460835&page=2&tbnh=137&tbnw=177&start=23&ndsp=29&ved=1t:429,r:9,s:23,i:172" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">this fabric and had a quote from a local curtain-maker for something like £650 for one pair of lined curtains - really didn't want to spend that much but found a site - Curtains Made Simple who made them with interlining, using the same fabric but charging much less for it, and the whole quote was quite a lot less than half-price for a pair of hand-made curtains which have now arrived and feel really heavy and luxurious. Really chuffed!

Will be back soon to write more and catch up with everyone's news, in summary yes Kate how goes it with beds and are you pleased with the quality/look of them; ALL - woohoo re. the holiday and LVB so pleased you had a good time overall although boo to the recurrent illness. I feel your pain; one/both of the girls were ill almost constantly while we were away.....

AtLongLast · 24/07/2012 21:36

Wow - congrats on the prize Lavita!! How fab is that? You've inspired me - never looked at that part of the site before. Have you had many comp wins? I had a friend who always won stuff.... but entered lots of competitions too. I've got my Converse in the basket but ordering a load of other stuff to try too. I had the luxury of a few hours in town on my own the other week so spent a few hours while in JL trying stuff on including a Damsel in a Dress dress after seeing links to the brand here.

Yes, my boys are the nappyless wonders. They are a lot better now but the thing that worked best here was inside-out sleepsuits as they didn't master the zips that way round. Even during the day I'd threaten to put them in sleepsuits if the nappies came off. So difficult before they can understand / be reasoned with though & I'm still trying to deal with the effects of the numerous accidents....

I really wanted to see the torch here Cerubina but dd was ill that day & sleeping so seemed a bit selfish to drag her out. We did manage to see a torch & have photos of us with it & the torchbearer though so that's something for the album. I'm so excited about the Olympics too. Mum is one of the negative types. Not interested. Not her cup of tea..... what is? .

Christmas discussions have begun here too Shock. Looks like ILs coming here again. Hopefully dd won't spend the holiday in hospital this year Hmm.

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AtLongLast · 24/07/2012 21:59

I feel for you LadyM. I think we're at a similar stage. We've had to comfort one or other (or both) most nights over the last couple of weeks. No indication of the problem though so it could just be attention here. Ds2 is pushing it with throwing stuff, spitting Shock etc over & over again when he clearly understands it's wrong. Then gets upset when told off. Ds1 is doing the infuriating want-that-until-offered-then-want-the-complete-opposite-but-not-really thing with tears & drama all the while.

Glad your holiday was OK. How's things with dh jobhunting? Do you have him at home too from this week?

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ladymuckbeth · 24/07/2012 22:09

Thanks ALL. I don't mean this how it sounds but it's good to hear we're not the only one with this problem.

Can I also let off some steam re. food/eating? I get a bit angsty when we're surrounded by impossibly perfect seeming other families on holiday, who seem to have children who eat everything put on their plate so they can be given a pudding which they then eat with appropriate glee. I know that's an exaggeration but I heard one mum say to her brood "don't worry about finishing everything on your plate, I know it's a big portion but eat what you can". They were all sat eating the same meal - lasagne, fries, carrots and peas. When the older two children ate a good amount she allowed them a pudding but the younger one (prob aged 3) hadn't eaten much, so she didn't let her have a pudding. The child complained briefly but then accepted it and sat there while her elder siblings sat eating cake and jelly. I cannot imagine such a scene!!

I am completely at the end of my tether with my feeding 'tactics' and need to have a massive rethink. I honestly struggle to think of one meal I can cook for both children. They are destroying my previous love of cooking - now I am faced with one child who eats "clean" pasta, plain vegetables, small amounts of very plain meat, NEVER eats anything in a sauce. And another one who will eat meat in sauces, no vegetables, small amounts of occasional pasta. I know this sounds pathetic but I would even pay someone to be really hardcore and give me a plan for a month and tactics to follow to help change their eating habits, I just don't know what to do!

AtLongLast · 24/07/2012 22:55

Grin LadyM

I'd like to think we are could be that family on a good day Grin. We do get lots of nice compliments about them when eating out. I suspect dd might be a different kettle of fish entirely..... Boys have different tastes - ds2 loves meat/carbs/spicy while ds1 prefers veg but I don't think they are as different as your girls so we can just give them different proportions of the bits of the meals we have & then I can just top up with stuff like coleslaw, hummous & steamed veg to bulk it out. We don't deny pudding but it's generally just fruit / yoghurt here anyway & I'd rather they had that than be hungry. Again, different though because we don't really have problems getting them to eat so if they've not had much there's probably a reason for it. Something ours have really enjoyed recently is having a selection of different food in the middle & they choose what they'd like. Sometimes it might not seem very meal-like, but they love the control / interactivity & do try new things.

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