I just started my second cycle of IVF, (we have 1 DS, age 3). First time we had just 1 embryo that fertilized and this is our darling boy! Small odds. So we didn't have the moral dilemma of how many eggs to put back. It's a major topic of conversation in our house. If we have 2, I want them both put back. I've just turned 39, if there is a baby on ice, I'll have to go back for them.
This time round, I've also decided to keep a blog, it's kind of like therapy for me :)...Here's the link if anyone is interested, would love to hear from anyone else going through IVF. tinyheartbeat.wordpress.com/2011/01/24/ivf-kick-off/)