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Does 'Christian name' bother you, if you're not a Christian?

101 replies

acnebride · 21/02/2005 14:38

Am sulking childishly over something that happened at my new work at a GP practice and would appreciate either being told that this doesn't matter or having my sulk validated . I heard one of the receptionists ask a mum who was wearing a hijab for her child's Christian name. The mum clearly wasn't delighted, but didn't make it a big issue; me as a PC wuss, and also having a Jewish son and husband, was quite upset. So at the next Practice meeting I said that I thought it was better to ask people for 'first names'. No-one objected at the time, but my boss has since reversed the decision and said staff can say whatever they like, because 'this is a Christian country'.

At least this decision allows me to carry on doing what I think best, but am slightly upset about it. Also worried that I've marked myself as a humourless PC person at my new work! (hey - truth hurts).

If you're not a Christian, or your child is not, does being asked for your Christian name even remotely bother you?

OP posts:
Twiglett · 22/02/2005 16:21

PMSL @ the thought of someone thinking its better to call you Ms when you want to be Mrs ... what's that about

agree with absolutely everything you said Cam

northerner · 22/02/2005 16:24

Can't quite believe anyone would get wound up over this. But then I am not easily offended.

Bozza · 22/02/2005 16:34

Surely there are very few names that you could say are Christian - would that be new testament names and if so very few female names. But then most of the people in the NT were Jews anway. I suppose my own name is Jewish but is actually mentioned in the New Testament and I was christened with it so don't know where I stand on that. Hmm am now pondering this one. Suppose Paul is a Christian name because he was originally Saul but not actually sure of any others!

JoolsToo · 22/02/2005 16:45

LOL! I have just been to my new doctors to register - the receptionist (about 60+) asked me what my christian name was - I don't know how I kept a straight face

ps - I wasn't offended!

Bozza · 22/02/2005 16:46

Joolstoo. At my surgery they just ask for my name and I give it in full (well not middle one obviously).

Twiglett · 22/02/2005 16:47

My first name is french .. and I'm not bloody french .. but no-one has ever asked me what my french name is

Bozza · 22/02/2005 16:52

oooh Twiglett just remembered what your first name is. That other thread has really got me dredging the depths of my mind.

Bozza · 22/02/2005 16:52

And my middle name is Russian - so there!

daisy1999 · 22/02/2005 16:54

I don't get offended by what people say, only by what they mean. If people mean to offend then be offended, but pc drives me mad!

northerner · 22/02/2005 16:55

I agree with daisy.

motherinferior · 22/02/2005 16:56

But mine isn't a Christian name. It's Hindu.

JoolsToo · 22/02/2005 17:06

Twiglett - commentallez vous?

Twiglett · 22/02/2005 18:12

tres bien merci, et toi?

JoolsToo · 22/02/2005 18:13

bloomin marvellous! what's your french nom then?

Twiglett · 22/02/2005 18:17

Its... La Twiglette ... of course

JoolsToo · 22/02/2005 18:19

how did I know you were going to be coy!

right I'm not telling you my real maiden name - its Belgian and there's a real story behind it

Twiglett · 22/02/2005 18:22

Well I just tried to Cat you ... and I must say I scripted a most amusing CAT .. and you're not allowing them .. so who's the coy one eh?

so CAT me and I'll email you back

JoolsToo · 22/02/2005 18:27

what the heck is CAT? - I've seen this before - I am NOT forbidding anything I'm open to all offers!

crystalglasses · 16/11/2010 23:17

Twiglet We ARE a christian country - it is and always has been the dominant faith - however it's not the only faith and so I agree that people shouldn't be asked for their 'christian' name as it can easily cause offence

Fromage · 16/11/2010 23:21

This thread is 5 years old!

Where on earth did you find it?Did it slip through Tech's cyber space time continuum and land in Active Convos?

crystalglasses · 16/11/2010 23:25

Oh what am I like! 2005! Obviously too much time on my hands!

GetOrfMoiLand · 16/11/2010 23:48

lol

I didn't notice at first.

NoahAndTheWhale · 17/11/2010 07:58

Found my 5 and a half year old self and feel pleased I still have the same views :)

MUM2BLESS · 22/11/2010 19:26

You have mentioned something which I have never thought of it before. I am however a christian.

muslimah28 · 24/12/2010 22:51

oh no, was just getting into this thread when i saw it was five years old....this is something which always gives me a slight irritation when asked...