Hubby keeps undermining me financially...

[casbie]

and now how joint debts of £3,600 which we can't afford to pay off...

And suggestions?

Can't kick him off the account as it is one that came with the morgage (both named). BUT, we said we would never use!

VERY, VERY cross!

can you change the account so that all changes require 2 signatures?
I think you need to contact the bank and try and arrange a payment plan and explain the situation and see if they can do anything to help you

Two signatures is a good one... will contact bank about it.
Thanks,
Cas

What was the money spent on ?

Are there any items he purchased with the money that can be sold to raise a little towards repaying the debt ?

Does he have any gadgets/assets that you could realistically ask him to sell to raise some funds ?

Painful consequences of his actions may help him next time he is tempted.