I am married to a Navy man and who constantly gets caught sneeking behind my back to meet with his ex. Well this is the straw that broke the camels back. I have documentation that my husband did not update the Tricare information a Military requirement by having his SD removed from Tricare and updating the address that they are residing with the biological mom all the way back to 2003. I am in the process of contacting the command on Monday. My question since we sold our home and bought a new home in Sept 2004 what do you think Hawaii law will do if we both have our kids living with us. One child is a biological child from his ex and one child is his step child from his ex. One 18 year old adult (my surrogant) is with me. I dont know the laws and dont want to lose my home but Hawaii is not the best state in the law department. Any suggestions, or experiences in this field will be greatly appreciated.