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Help!!! has X just committed bigamy??

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Leslaki · 08/02/2009 20:59

Yet another nitemare in my jeremy Kyle style divorce. We have finally finally seen my x's from E (well, he has partially completed it - oor lamb has only had 11 months to do it in and he issued court proceedings!0. Anyway he has stated that he got married on my birthday in May last year - 2 months to the day after he left me!! But we only got our decree nisi in jan 09!!!! His NW still isn't divorced either! I checked his bank statement (the only one he let us see - he admitted this 1 accoutn but I know he has 3 others) and he spent loads in beaverbrooks and Ernest Jones, la Senza and Ann Summers leading up to the 'wedding' date. He was in Dublin over the date as well! She got married in Oz and we got married in Scotland. WTF do i do now????? he has loads of debts and has kinked some to the house - met up with NW's husband and she did same to him. he paid her off but still isn't sivorced. Turns out he paid for things for her which my x is now claiming he /we apid for - and is counting them as joint marital debt! This is getting worse every day.

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SulliedYouth · 08/02/2009 21:03

OMG
I have no real advice other than get a solicitor quick but christ what a nightmare.
I am sorry you are going through this.

Leslaki · 08/02/2009 21:08

Have got a solicitor but have just spent £700 on him after spending 3 hours at court waiting for x to turn up then being told hearing couldn'y go ahead cos he hadn't turned up. Judge just said 'ah i see there has been a re-marriage. Oh, you haven't had your decree absolute yet. Oh. We may have to look into this' This was at a first financail haering as part of our divorce FFS!!! AARRGGGHH!!!!! This is turning into a J Kyle nitemare... I ahve no idea what to do now. If I proceed with making a fuss and he goes to jail will I end up with his debts as they are tied to the house? Will I lose my hosue? i earn £6k - he earns £70k!!!

BTW Thanks for replying!

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babybarrister · 08/02/2009 21:09

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