I hadn’t even given it any thought until reading this thread. My 18 year old old autistic son will finish college this summer at 19, after doing a level 2 course, then a level 3 course, and after having sat his English GCSE multiple times, with his highest grade a 3. He hasn’t applied for any jobs throughout school or college as it takes all his energy and focus to just attend college and do his college assignments. He is not academic so does not want to do university, and would not cope moving away from home and navigating university alongside living independently.
Ideally an apprenticeship would be his next step, but even those can be very competitive as not many places. He is a lovely lad, who tries his best to mask his autism, but I know there will be a struggle to get and hold down a full time job, as masking is exhausting.
We have never claimed benefits, apart from child benefit, and he has not claimed any kind of disability benefits as I have always worked around him so one of us is around to support him.
If it is likely that it will take a long time for DS to get a job then I would help him claim UC to get his NI stamp and hopefully get him extra help with applying for jobs, particularly with autism friendly employers. He costs us very little as he doesn’t leave the house apart from for college, but I really don’t want him to not have college or a job, as I think his self worth will tank.