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£100k + Universal Credit?

278 replies

NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown · 23/09/2025 15:44

I want to claim UC as I am no longer able to work due to a progressive illness.

Husband and I are divorcing. I owed him money, from a verbally-agreed loan between us both, so I transferred money to him three months ago. Plus, some of his savings were in my account, so I also transferred this back to him three months ago.

Will Universal Credit look unfavourably at all this - that I transferred £100k to him, and have very little (less than £16k) left over for myself? I have never claimed benefits before, so I am nervous this will be seen as deprivation of capital, despite occuring prior to me making a claim.

OP posts:
ShootingCoyotesOutTheWindow · 24/09/2025 18:18

@NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown I’m guessing your DH told you you’re a hypochondriac?

genic75 · 24/09/2025 18:31

FickleOcelot · 23/09/2025 15:50

Surely, if you're divorcing, that 100k is in the marital pot anyway?

Exactly this!!!

Waitfortheguinness · 24/09/2025 18:35

NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown · 23/09/2025 15:44

I want to claim UC as I am no longer able to work due to a progressive illness.

Husband and I are divorcing. I owed him money, from a verbally-agreed loan between us both, so I transferred money to him three months ago. Plus, some of his savings were in my account, so I also transferred this back to him three months ago.

Will Universal Credit look unfavourably at all this - that I transferred £100k to him, and have very little (less than £16k) left over for myself? I have never claimed benefits before, so I am nervous this will be seen as deprivation of capital, despite occuring prior to me making a claim.

Why was he hiding his savings in your bank account?

Bobiverse · 24/09/2025 18:45

Have you managed to make an appointment with a solicitor @NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown ?

And also kept this quiet from your husband?

Yayhelen · 24/09/2025 18:53

Sounds like you need to spend some of your £16k on a decent solicitor and conduct financial mediation OP.

MaryMaggot · 24/09/2025 19:10

Pls get your own representation. I know there is lots of cynicism being expressed here. Was/is your husband coercive and controlling?

Hangingthread · 24/09/2025 19:16

The world of Mumsnet has spoken. You have got a very bad deal here and you need to advocate for yourself. As you say you are mo longer able to work. You have raised a family allowing him to go out to work. Half of his cash is your cash. He gets 100k and you get £16k. Very unbalanced. Please listen to everyone giving you good advice! UC isn’t going to pay out on this basis so you need to get a fair deal out of the ex!

FlyMeSomewhere · 24/09/2025 19:20

I'll never understand this country, so many working households have little spare cash left at the end of a month yet some people can have almost 16k in the bank, a flash car worth £17k a lump sum off ex hubby every month but expecting the tax payer to immediately start paying for everything! Benefits was supposed to help people that had little to no income and now many people on benefits have more free cash than many that work.

Trishyb10 · 24/09/2025 19:28

Bless you, wishing you all the best for the future and pray your illness stabilises,stay strong xxxxx

C8H10N4O2 · 24/09/2025 19:52

NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown · 23/09/2025 18:34

Thank you all. I will be speaking to a new solicitor tomorrow - to go over UC eligibility and the divorce settlement. I have all paperwork of all savings accounts - both mine and his - some in pdf and some in print. I assumed UC will want them so I have them ready. I am not hiding anything from the solicitor/DWP, and will be honest about all transactions and their purposes.

I hope they are good on divorce and will tell your greedy, philandering STBX that he doesn’t get to grab the vast bulk of all the joint assets from a long marriage and then expect the taxpayer to support his unwell ex.

Frankly if the new partner was posting here I suspect most of us would be warning her off the greedy bastard - it will be her turn next.

Laura95167 · 24/09/2025 20:03

Am I following:

Whilst you were married your DH LOANED you £100k

Youve managed,despite illness and divorce,to save it up to pay it back in full

You're divorcing, and based on the verbal agreement this was a loan, youve sent him the full £100k back

Youre left with under £16k, coincidently the UC limit

And now your progressive illness means youll need UC

I can see why theyd have a problem with your claim, assuming this is nothing but a coincidence you arent divorced yet and theres £100k marital asset in the mix

Oldwmn · 24/09/2025 20:26

NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown · 23/09/2025 15:44

I want to claim UC as I am no longer able to work due to a progressive illness.

Husband and I are divorcing. I owed him money, from a verbally-agreed loan between us both, so I transferred money to him three months ago. Plus, some of his savings were in my account, so I also transferred this back to him three months ago.

Will Universal Credit look unfavourably at all this - that I transferred £100k to him, and have very little (less than £16k) left over for myself? I have never claimed benefits before, so I am nervous this will be seen as deprivation of capital, despite occuring prior to me making a claim.

I'm afraid that, unless you have legal papers to show why you had to give your ex all that dosh, they will treat that money as yours & you find out for real that it's far from easy to claim benefits. They will let you starve first. Good luck!

ELCismyspiritnana · 24/09/2025 20:27

MustWeDoThis · 23/09/2025 20:11

No. This was prior to making a claim. Provide your bank statements if they ask for them and he clear about your savings. You don't need to discuss prior transactions. If you were not claiming UC during that period, then it will be disregarded.

UC only asses savings and wages during what we call "Assessment Periods". You will need to declare the savings. Anything between 6 and 16K will be deducted. 16K and over will close the claim.

You can also claim contributions style JSA and ESA alongside UC. Considering you are very ill - Make a dual claim for UC and New Style ESA. Provide all of your medical information, and please also apply for PIP, especially if you're very ill.

Let UC know that the money prior to your claim was a financial split during divorce proceedings. Your partner sounded abusive, and it sounds like financial coercion. You can get extra support from the DWP, when it comes to abusive separations. There are specific teams to support vulnerable claimants.

Please do go ahead and make your claim. It's tailored around your circumstances.

@mustwedothis can you give details of who to ask for or how to access this service? A friend in a similar situation recently asked for help and was told there's no such thing and was directed to citizens advice. Is it regional? Thank you (and sorry to de-rail, although will hopefully also be useful to others).

LouiseK93 · 24/09/2025 21:09

Her verbally agreed to lend someone he is about to divorce 100k? I dont think so...
Don't be tight and use your money. Telling us a lie doesnt make it true.

LouiseK93 · 24/09/2025 21:11

I will add...funny how you transferred him the money three months ago and they ask to see last three months worth of bank statements.

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 24/09/2025 21:41

reasonswhyy · 23/09/2025 15:45

Would look very suspicious tbh

This could be a potentially a very difficult situation for you. So as soon as possible And l mean pronto for the following

See a very good Welfare Rights Advisor. Not Citizens Advice they tend to be too generalized

Then a Solicitor who specialized in debt.

Hope you can get this sorted real soon.

🤞🌻✔️

PetuniaT · 24/09/2025 22:32

This kind of con has been tried before. Even politicians have tried it.

TheJinxMinx · 25/09/2025 08:02

This thread gets worse the more I read. He transferred money, he works you didn't you didn't even spend the money by the looks of things. It was not a loan! Its joint capital you were a stay at home housewife working part time as raising kids and now you say you suddenly can't work. That money was a joint asset in the divorce plus when the divorce settles I assume your "just a little under 16k which is conveniently just below the threshold" will increase as you will more than likely be entitled to half. Will that then be declared to them that actually this is not my true savings or income as im set to likely get a large sum of money in divorce?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 10:22

@NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown Have you made an appointment with a solicitor yet?

2twoyear2two · 25/09/2025 10:45

Suggest claim PIP

Hopingtobeaparent · 25/09/2025 13:05

@NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown

How was the appointment with the new Solicitor? Useful I hope???

Agree with others, he is only looking out for himself and absolutely taking advantage of you. Only you can truly look out for yourself.

Sell the money pit of a house, then it’s neither yours nor his problem!

Find your anger, find your voice, and find your fight!!

Good luck!!

Owl55 · 25/09/2025 17:22

Yes very suspicious

Chaosclassic · 25/09/2025 17:31

NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown · 23/09/2025 23:24

3 months ago, my husband said 'You are to return every penny of mine in your accounts, including the XYZ I lent you for medical treatment'.

I am a hypochondriac, so when I got serious symptoms at the end of last year, it sent me into a spiral and thus, he agreed to lend me money. I now realise this wasn't as charitable as he made out. The money was untouched, unmoved and unused as I was seen on the NHS within a week.

What is so difficult to believe about that?

I am not a muppet as someone so unkindly put it. Both of us had these conversations about UC and the settlement infront of the joint rep solicitor who did not say a peep out of turn against my husband. Surely, the solicitor would have said funds in a marriage are shared - despite my belief that as he was earning it all, it belongs to him. In effect, he was temporarily dumping it in my account. Marriage allowance exists for tax advantages which we did previously.

In the case of money being shared, I should have access to half of his personal (multiple!) ISAs and savings, which was never ever brought up in our appointments by our joint solicitor. My husband is wealthy. I do not need UC if what was shared on here is correct - I may never need it if I have access to even one half of one of his pensions.

Go get what you’re entitled to. Glad to hear this. Must be a big relief 😅🥳🥳🥳

Kelly1969 · 25/09/2025 19:38

NeverGoingToGiveYouUpButIMayLetYouDown · 23/09/2025 18:26

The house - we got the keys just when I got sick. I see the property itself as something that embodied bad luck. There was quite a lot of work - some of which was discovered post-exchange - that it required, which remains unfinished. I have not even made it feel like 'home' yet. He says that only he can afford to fund the incomplete building work, and I agree. We have no mortgage - I am jointly on the deeds.

I was simply focusing on my health - I have always been a bit irrational about health woes. I did not care about the divorce/finance split as much as I did my health, hence the stumble of UC eligibility this weekend.

If I am ineligible, I have something to go back to my husband with about why I cannot rely on UC as an option like he says I can.

All seems very odd, money and assets gained while still married are joint assets, regardless of who put it in, OP sounds articulate so I don’t understand why she thinks otherwise when it comes to divorcing.
Just because he’s asking/demanding the money back, doesn’t mean you have to.
OP seems to have come to decision with soon to be Ex that she gets less than she’s entitled to and UC can make up the difference!
Not how life or benefits work, with a paid off house and £100k+ in the marital pot there should be plenty of money that means OP doesn’t have to rely on UC, seems pretty greedy to me.

Kelly1969 · 25/09/2025 19:47

Oldconker · 23/09/2025 18:43

She also owns half a house! Which is classed as an asset. Very cheap house if half is only £16000!

16k is mentioned as its the cut off for being eligible for UC, clearly the house is worth a lot more than that and that is not even counting the 100k cash assets

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