Our family income is around €130,000 if you include my company car. There are two of us working but I earn about two thirds of that.
I don't think I ever imagined we would be rich on this kind of income. We live in a three bedroom apartment which we only bought four years ago at the age of 33. I drive a Peugeot 308, which was admittedly brand new when I got it two years ago, and which belongs to my employer, who also covers insurance, maintenance and petrol. We have one child in nursery full time, which only costs us €600 a month because childcare is much cheaper here. We eat well and spend a lot on food, get a takeaway every week or two, which is incredibly expensive, cleaner about once a fortnight. We don't go on expensive holidays or city breaks anymore. We eat out occasionally, but much less than we did before kids. We might one day be able to afford private school fees, but that is much, much cheaper here. If we were in the UK on an equivalent income, private school would be completely out of the question. We also pay for health insurance and it doesn't always cover the full cost of our healthcare.
We pay a lot of tax, and once our unavoidable bills have been covered, we aren't rolling in it.
So I get what you mean. It sounds like a lot of money but in reality it is nowhere near enough to afford what I would consider a life of luxury.
But at the same time, I know that nearly all of our friends, who seem to be getting by just fine, have a lower income than we do. And at a population level, the very vast majority of other families have a lower income than we do.
I can't pretend that I don't worry about money because I do, a bit. But we don't have serious money worries. We are secure. We don't have debt other than our mortgage. We spend less than we earn, even without particularly careful budgeting. We could be doing a lot better but we could also be doing a lot worse.
And that in itself is a luxury, these days. If you are in your 30s and you are a homeowner whose income comfortable exceeds your expenditure, you are one of the lucky ones. You are living a life of comparative luxury.
But if you compare yourself to people living in massive houses with kids in private school and regular skiing holidays - people who probably aren't paying for all of that out of their post tax earned income - then of course you will feel hard done by.
You need to compare yourself to the whole of society, not to the extremely privileged.