I have two budgets. The scraping-by budget that is absolute essentials and a couple of things that I personally think are the most basic of non-essentials for me and my kid that everyone should be able to afford in this country. (telly and music for her, £16 a month. National trust membership, a hot bath once a week and a not-freezing, but not really warm house for me) and some things that aren’t truly essential, but considered normal and can’t just be cancelled to get through a tough month (broadband, mobile phone, some school dinners, a couple cheap clubs). It’s an only just about adequate (£15pppw) food and clothes (£30 pm) budget. It’s stressful and I have to watch it like a hawk to make it stretch. Lots of making do, doing without, finding gifted and second hand clothes etc. no booze, no vaping, no beauty, no school trips, no takeaways, no going out at all (except local and free).
It’s £1200 a month, and I wouldn’t call it living - just surviving. But it is miserable, unacceptable in this country for anyone and not sustainable long term. I have exceptionally low housing costs (only £350 a month) only one child, no childcare costs, no commuting costs, have had a lot more in the past (so often living off capital or can sell things if need be) and no debt other than a small mortgage (no car payments). There’s nothing for new glasses or dental treatment, calculators or stationery, car repairs, holidays, birthdays, days out, evenings out, hobbies. Definitely no holidays. Even haircuts or toothbrush heads are hard to buy. Ok, we aren’t huddled around a single candle, but if I need printer ink I have to find something to sell. That’s not ok.
It also doesn’t include ANY savings, or even adequate insurance. I don’t have a will or life insurance because I have no spare funds. If the washing machine breaks or a filling falls out or we even if we need a lawnmower or lightbulbs, I’m fucked. If your only way of dealing with that is to cross your fingers, that’s poverty, isn’t it? Because sooner or later it will happen.
If you had normal housing costs, commute costs, a car on finance, were saving even a little and had proper insurance etc, yes I think you are looking at a lot more. Those things matter.
My ‘sensible’ budget is £2400 a month. That’s with a small emergency fund, life insurance, tiny pension, adequate food budget, and something for health and random stuff like printer ink. Still no childcare, very low housing costs and no car payment, and no daily ‘luxuries’, going out or adult pocket money (but a UK camping holiday, enough clothes and kids clubs and cheap birthday/Christmas celebrations). It’s hardly living it up - £50k a year (for a family of four) to go without haircuts and takeaways!
So yes, I bet a family could easily get up to 70k without extravagance. My 24k is still very basic, and for only two people. If you’re renting, it would be be double my housing cost. 2 adults likely need two cars to work and commute costs, so double again, and while heating etc isn’t double, most things are, so £50k before tax? Add childcare, and your most of the way there aren’t you? Poverty doesn’t have to be Dickensian. It’s just not having enough for basics. A lawnmower, printer ink, dental care, taking the kids out for the day occasionally or haircuts should be included in those basics, not the just a roof and bread and water.