Just received this text from my husband [name deleted] ex wife [name deleted] . ( Feel free to look her up, she's rough looking, black and white photo of a bloated face!)
For those of you who have heard of the saying
'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' she is the epitome of this.
In 2003 she thought the grass was greener and left him for another bloke.
She gave him the kids and wandered off to make a new life.
One her first contact visit in 10 weeks she kept the kids and we spent 15k over the next 4 years fighting to just see the kids who were both under 5.
On 12th May 2007 she gave the 2 precious kids to us having pissed £120k of divorce money up the wall. We had withdrawn from the court process months before so that the kids were no longer embroiled in a war and subject to her sick games. She'd allow them to get into our car then take them straight back out again, screaming as they cried for their dad.
With her power gone she sent the kids to us and went off to 'pursue her dreams '.
(Written in a letter to the kids).
Over the 11 years until they were 18 she paid only £340 in csa despite bragging that she earned £200k a year.
She flouted contact visits and refused to have drug and alcohol testing through the court resulting in the court refusing contact until these were done.
She vented hate campaigns against me and often laughed that I had given up my career as a midwife to look after 6 kids under 10 while my husband was in the Navy.
We have changed our numbers 100s of times and learned to ignore her crazy, alcohol fuelled rants.
My Facebook account had her down as blocked, yet I guess that today, for whatever reason she's taken the time to stalk me with a new account.
Of course, I am flattered.
Flattered that after 16 years of being with my gorgeous, handsome and successful husband she still needs to check up on how our life is going.
I am fairly certain that when your life is rosy, filled with love and contentment you would have no need to stalk and pester anyone.
I feel the crux of the matter is that her life perhaps isnt the dream she hoped it would be.
She's a mum of three and hasn't seen or heard from them in years because the courts see her as unfit.
She has a 8 year old who was removed by the local authority aged 9 months because of her inability to put the needs of the child above her own.
She owes 4k in CSA which we have just chosen to have written off.
She drinks to excess and has a narsiccistic personality.
I don't believe shes happy and I know for sure that of I was looking for someone to copy, it sure as shite wouldn't be her.
I have no desire to speak like trailer trash, dye my hair black and live a sad and futile existence.
Yes, I drive a volvo xc90. Its a common car. In black.
I didnt, ever stalk her profile ( shes blocked and I wouldn't waste my finger power unblocking her) in order to see what car she's driving!
If she has an XC90 thats great. That's where the similarities end tho.
I am happy, I see my kids, I am able to put their needs first, I did not abandon them to persue my dreams, I do not have issues with alcohol dependency or am crackers. I have a happy marriage and am aging well.
I am not a bloated, shrivelled up crone.
I have written a successful, best selling book, I do know how many copies I have sold and I still get amazing messages daily telling me that my book has helped it's reader.
So love.
From me to you.
We've done this alot.
I block you. You engage with me by whatever means you can and give me ample reason to publically call out your sorry, fat arse for all of your flaws.
I've blocked your number and your email. I've blocked you on this fb account and hope to NEVER hear from you again.
Now, as you pour another drink realise this, I am off to drive my lovely XC90 which I chose because I love it into the sunset, back to my happy seaside house, with my happy heart and beaming soul.
#chow #douchecanoe