Does anyone on here work for a bank?

[LucyJones]

A friend at M&T works for a bank that I use - I wondered that as I've told her I have an account with them does this mean she can look up my details etc and see how much we have/ owe etc?

Not legally she can't. You're simply not allowed to be nosy like that, if you're junior enough to want to try then audit will probably catch you out, and if you're more senior then you have better things to do and franky there's a lot more interesting things to be in on!
Technically, depending on her job, then yes she probably can, but what can she do then? And most people's bank statements are incredibly dull......
Hope that helps put your mind at rest without making you sound financially boring!