DH is self employed, sub contracting through a couple of different companies. Work fluctuates in his field and currently about 75% of his work comes through a small, one man band type company. Basically the issue is the guy never pays DH's invoices on time and it's causing us major problems. He currently owes us £1100 all of which is overdue and he's pleading poverty and claiming he's awaiting payment from customers before he can pay DH. Meanwhile our direct debits are bouncing (incurring a £6 bank charge every time plus late payment fees from utility companies) as my wage is having to cover food and fuel for DH to get to the jobs he's now not being paid for
and there's nothing left over for bills. Its causing us so much stress and the guy who owes us seems entirely unconcerned about the position he's putting us in. His wife deals with his invoices and he keeps using the excuse that she can't look at them for us because she's away on holiday, they've been abroad 3 times in the last few months and always seem to be away for weekends so it very much feels like rubbing salt in the wound when we can't even pay our bills because he can't/won't pay DH. I should add that his business is reputable and has been running for many years so it's not that he's a cowboy, he has other sub contractors working for him but no one DH knows so no idea if others are having the same issues. DH is trying his hardest to get work from other places in the hope that he can just stop working for this guy but there's very little about so he basically has us over a barrel. In addition to the worry over the bills all of our DD's birthday money (less than 2 weeks away) and what we've budgeted for Christmas is dependant on invoices being paid by this guy (DH has purposely worked extra hours to pay for presents) and the worry that he won't pay on time is making me ill. DH is fairly new to being self employed and we have no idea what recourse (if any) we have for late payment other than obviously small claims court if things get to the point where it looks like he isn't going to pay at all. Trouble is that doesn't help us in the short term, we're on a tight budget and never seem to be able to get in front of ourselves because by the time any money comes in we're behind with all the bills and it all goes straight back out again, if he would just pay on time we might be in with a chance but things are about to get even worse as he's now changed DH's payment term from 30 to 60 days as he says it takes that long for customers to pay him. Does anyone have any advice on how we can apply any pressure to get him to cough up, we don't believe he has any cash flow issues or he wouldn't be able to afford the holidays etc so it just feels like he's being either half arsed (at best) or deliberately withholding payment for his own benefit. There are few overheads to his business and what he pays DH and his other sub contractors is a fraction of what he gets for each job so there's really no excuse for him to put us in this position. Sorry this has turned into more of a rant than a request for advice but I'm just so frustrated and don't like to keep going on at DH about it as it really isn't his fault and would just make him feel worse. He works so hard and is really good at his job, he deserves so much better than this. We know long term the answer is to source work from elsewhere and cut ties with this guy but that will take time and we need to live in the meantime.