Hi, I am new here so apologies if this is the wrong place to put this.
I'm self employed and long story short I buried my head in the sand and let my self assessment tax get behind. I paid my first bill, then missed the last two and now have a debt of over 6k! I just rang them up in order to make a payment plan and ended up in tears!! I can't explain just how horrible they were. Made me feel like I should sell myself in order to pay them right this minute! We went through my in and outgoings and they could clearly see there's no way I can commit to paying £671 each and every month as they suggested. There IS the possibility I can pay a lump sum now and then to cover the shortfall, but really I just cannot afford more than £300 per month, and even that means I would literally have nothing at all left over and would need to go without petrol (I don't drive much as I work from home). I told them I WANT to pay, and I WILL pay, but their demands are unreasonable.
I was so shaken up by it all that I rang Business Debtline and oh my days what a mistake! They basically scared the living daylights out of me explaining how HMRC will send bailiffs round and make me bankrupt! They seemed to miss the point that I was looking for help on how I COULD pay, not how I could avoid it.
Please can anyone help me with what to say and who to speak to about this? I just need to set up some kind of affordable payment plan. And I REALLY need to avoid any kind of bad mark on my credit files. Frankly I'm scared to death to try with HMRC again direct and will just write to them in future.