I know no one will be able to offer the perfect answer but I'm getting seriously stressed out! So here's the situation, me and my husband were out of work and had to come stay with my parents. We are both working now but only part time on a basic wage and we're expecting our 1st baby in December. We have saved around £600 so far for a deposit so we can rent privately and move in to our own place. I don't expect to live off benefits and get everything handed to us on a plate (if I did neither of us would be working at all) but am stressed and confused about whether or not we would get any help with bills etc. once we move out and have the baby. I've searched on the Direct Gov website and alot of it says you dont get anything unless your already receiving benefits, which we dont. I went to the local Citizens Advice for some help but all she did was give me a list of local letting agents and the name of a website which tells you what, if any, benefits your entitled to (I had already been on this site a while ago and it says we're not entitled to anything). Hopefully my husband can get more hours at work but he only started in May so its not likely they will up his hours drastically any time soon. The only thing I can think of is to just apply for everything and anything and hope for the best but at the same time dont want to get into any trouble for claiming too much or anything, I just cant stand the thought of having a baby and still living with my parents (its embarrassing for one) and they smoke, argue, arnt the most tidy/hygienic people I would want around my child 24/7. If anyone can offer advice/support/words of wisdom it would make me feel much better :)