my dd1 got rushed into hosp 5 weeks ago due to having blood clots on her lungs ,her fella came to borrow £50 to go towards his car insurance as did not have the full amount to pay and he would not be able to drive the car,[i lent him the money from my sons dla] plus over the nxt 3 days i lent him another £60 on the promise i got back asap , still no money over the weekend hes been sending me blank txts at least 70 ,leaving nasty vmails calling my bf a pedo now he says i can f off hes not giving it to me i need the money to buy my son some clothes what can i do as i only wrote down in my diary . hes says ive no proof im sick of lending dd money .