Hi all
Many apologies for my silence, life has been hard recently. For those of you who are kind enough to remember or might be interested here is a recap:
DH and I had our 2nd child in May last year. After a month off DH returned o work (a company he has worked at for 6 years) to be called into a meeting and suspended due to discrepencies on a client he worked on. In due course he was found guilty of gross misconduct and fired. In the meantime the olice were also called in as it would seem that monies had gone missing. A fake case had been set up and dh had apparently done this, done all the work, written cheques and taken the money.
Everything is in DH name, all the evidence points to him. Some of the money even touched our bank accounts before it was immediatly transferred back out again. DH was arrested and taken in for questionning. I was also arrested and also questionned.
We have been interviewed by the police a couple of times and the case has now been transferred to the cps to decide whether we should be charged.
The bank has done their own investigations and concluded we are guilty and closed our account, refusing to give any further info as we were in the wrong. We cannot do any investigating or prove ourselves innocent unless we are charged as we have no legal rights to anything.
We also have a cilvil case against us trying to recoup the monies we were supposed to have taken.
Neither dh or i are guilty, you just have to take our word for that.
Ds is now 2 and dd is now 10 months. Our lives stopped 9 months ago and we are unable to start living again until all is over.
Someone out there has set us up, we never saw or spent the money. Someone has decided to destry our lives and don't seem to care that innocent children are involved.
DH and I are still together and stronger than ever, They will not destroy us and one day life will be normal again.
If you have got to this point thank you for reading.