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Homeless young family!

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babyhayley · 24/04/2011 10:57

Okie dokie, before I get started here I must stress I would talk to CAB/Dole Office whatever but as me and my husband work full time, despite our best efforts that's not working out for us as they are only ever open at stupid times and they never pick up the phone (maybe snail mail).

I'm in a bit of a fix with being able to afford a home. Me and my husband have private rented for years but the issue is we have to leave in September as l/l is selling and doesn't want to renew our tenancy. At this point I'll be 8 months pregnant!

I've spoke to the council but all they do is drag their heels and never give me an answer as to how our housing application may progress (they know i'm pg and I've been on the list for 7 years).

I'm starting to understand that I probably won't be able to rely on the council as we'll probably end up in a druggy bedsit at best. So, step in private renting! Only issue being I can't afford the deposit and months rent up front. It's not that I want to sponge, it's just that I need to seriously repair my car to keep on working until I drop to pay for baby stuff (thanks for removing my £500 bit of hope Mr Cameron), husbands salary just about covers all household bills and when you consider I will have to stop working a large deposit is simply too much. I've done a budget and allowing for all the expense I reckon we will be short of covering it all. Only by about £300 or so.

Looking at tax credit and maternity pay etc we could private rent no problem! The only issue then going forward is that I will probably have to go back to work after 6 months as my maternity allowance will stop. I'll be honest - I'd rather stay at home until the baby is at least 1!

It's a big mess - all happening to a young couple who earn £40,000 a year between them and have done for many years. How messed up is this Country when you can't get a decent start on those earnings!

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littleducks · 24/04/2011 11:01

It sounds like an odd scenario tbh.

Council wont do anything useful until you are actually being kicked out and if you can afford private rent it probably isnt an avenue that you want to eplore...temporary housing with a new baby wouldnt be much fun

Is there a scheme where you council lend/pay your deposit for you so that you only have to pay rent?

Will you be getting a deposit back from where you live now?

ChocolateCoveredlissielou · 24/04/2011 11:04

speajk to your council, most offer deposit bonds where they guarantee the deposit if you go into private renting. you do need to crack on. when is your LL selling? why cant you have a rolling contract until he/she does sell? it could take ages for a sale to be made/go through.

GypsyMoth · 24/04/2011 11:05

surely you'll be getting your free months rent and deposit back???

BeehiveBaby · 24/04/2011 11:08

Only deposit returned IME and that can take a while. Don't get OP's figures though. £40K?

babyhayley · 24/04/2011 11:09

I'm not sure if there is a deposit scheme as I can't get through to any of the relevant parties who would give me that advice. I've heard that the local resource centre may be able to help of which I've managed to book a day off in May to go there. I just don't want to rest on my laurels until then.

I agree though that the council will only B&B us at best.

We didn't pay a deposit on this flat, as it was totally private (not even involving a letting agency). We instead paid a pro rata amount to cover.

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GypsyMoth · 24/04/2011 11:11

you arent homeless yet,you need to actually get evicted for them to help you i believe. from threads here previously,thats how i understand it anyway

rent deposit scheme with an income of 40k?? doubt it

ChocolateCoveredlissielou · 24/04/2011 11:12

ok, you say that you have spoken to the council about your application. call them after the bank holiday and ask about deposit schemes. the majority of LA's do them. also register with every HA in your area. september is a long way away, you can sort this out by then.

ChocolateCoveredlissielou · 24/04/2011 11:13

can yopu not save the money for a deposit? cut down on non-necessities etc?

IngridFletcher · 24/04/2011 11:14

As far as the baby things are concerned you really need very little to start with. Try free cycle and nearly new sales to get second hand. Can you save more towards your shortfall by buying the minimum second hand?

coccyx · 24/04/2011 11:15

Have to say if you earn a joint income of 40,000 then you should be able to put some aside for a deposit?????
I have a house i privately let out and we took a deposit.

babyhayley · 24/04/2011 11:19

Sorry I meant to say £30k - typo!

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ChocolateCoveredlissielou · 24/04/2011 11:19

£300 up til sept is £60pm, or £15pw. we have an income of about £10,000pa and could scrape that together if it was something as important as a home for our family.

babyhayley · 24/04/2011 11:21

Yes but you need to understand that we are exhausting all of our spare income already.

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DuelingFanjo · 24/04/2011 11:23

I would start saving now. DH and I manage to save £100 a month on wages only slightly over yours, could you save £60 a month between now and Sept?

DuelingFanjo · 24/04/2011 11:24

x post.

what can you cut down on? how will you manage with a new baby if you are already stretching yourself?

ChocolateCoveredlissielou · 24/04/2011 11:25

ebay? carboot sales? as others have said, baby things you can borrow, get second hand or from freegle/freecycle. shop around for food etc...

Thornykate · 24/04/2011 11:29

as you are careful with money I expect you both have a good credit rating so would qualify to borrow the money at low interest until your deposit returned by current landlord? Borrowing is never ideal but surely a short term loan/ overdraft or credit card is better than relying on the council?

ChocolateCoveredlissielou · 24/04/2011 11:30

what thornykate said. whereabouts are you op?

babyhayley · 24/04/2011 11:31

We are saving, the situation is it will take about £600 to repair my car (which I need for work). £500 for the baby stuff at least then in this area a deposit and months rent up front will be at least £1500 - £1600 inc. fees.

This works out at £2700.

Our bills (and we've looked at cutting them) are £1400 per month.

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TheSecondComing · 24/04/2011 11:32

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Thornykate · 24/04/2011 11:33

Are you in a Credit Union?

babyhayley · 24/04/2011 11:34

My credit rating is no good. I never had credit before the crunch so never built up my rating and can't even get a littlewoods account. Might be able to up the overdraft though as I bank well- but isn't that getting us further into trouble?

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DuelingFanjo · 24/04/2011 11:34

could you get a credit card for the car fixing?

TheSecondComing · 24/04/2011 11:34

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DuelingFanjo · 24/04/2011 11:35

what about your dh, is his credit rating bad?