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Homeless young family!

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babyhayley · 24/04/2011 10:57

Okie dokie, before I get started here I must stress I would talk to CAB/Dole Office whatever but as me and my husband work full time, despite our best efforts that's not working out for us as they are only ever open at stupid times and they never pick up the phone (maybe snail mail).

I'm in a bit of a fix with being able to afford a home. Me and my husband have private rented for years but the issue is we have to leave in September as l/l is selling and doesn't want to renew our tenancy. At this point I'll be 8 months pregnant!

I've spoke to the council but all they do is drag their heels and never give me an answer as to how our housing application may progress (they know i'm pg and I've been on the list for 7 years).

I'm starting to understand that I probably won't be able to rely on the council as we'll probably end up in a druggy bedsit at best. So, step in private renting! Only issue being I can't afford the deposit and months rent up front. It's not that I want to sponge, it's just that I need to seriously repair my car to keep on working until I drop to pay for baby stuff (thanks for removing my £500 bit of hope Mr Cameron), husbands salary just about covers all household bills and when you consider I will have to stop working a large deposit is simply too much. I've done a budget and allowing for all the expense I reckon we will be short of covering it all. Only by about £300 or so.

Looking at tax credit and maternity pay etc we could private rent no problem! The only issue then going forward is that I will probably have to go back to work after 6 months as my maternity allowance will stop. I'll be honest - I'd rather stay at home until the baby is at least 1!

It's a big mess - all happening to a young couple who earn £40,000 a year between them and have done for many years. How messed up is this Country when you can't get a decent start on those earnings!

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Doobydoo · 25/04/2011 15:01

Digress[sorry]

moomaa · 25/04/2011 17:25

Try NCT sales for cheap baby things. Cots are about £10 - £20 at ours in really good condition.

I would get a 1 bedroom for a year or so. Look for one really near amenities so you don't have to drive much. Look for one near a big Sure Start centre then you can get lots of activities and support for free/cheap.

fluffles · 25/04/2011 17:31

presumably you've got a deposit held with your current landlord that you will get back?

so you just need to borrow about £800 for 3-4 weeks?

why not speak to your bank and see if they can sort you out. i'm pretty sure mine would give me that sort of amount in those circumstances.

renting is a good place to be with your current circs as you can move around as your needs and ability to pay change - start somewhere small for now while money is tight and baby doesn't need their own room and look to move again in about a year's time.

Celibin · 26/04/2011 07:20

Iwent On Moat Housing ASS w/site (Essex) they have an online calc and it is all done on a points system. Having seen that i think I would move into a one bedder

sillymillybilly · 26/04/2011 11:39

If like you say you can't do without the car,i would sort it out first.I the you are getting yourself all worked up thinking about everything.
If you income is £30k that works out to £2500p/m.Not sure how much this is after tax but say £2000.Your bills are £1395.This leaves you with £605p/m after paying everything out.
You could save £400 of that one month, and then the next month put the extra and sort the car.So say you do that this month and next,it leaves you june till sept to save for a deposit.
Buy afew baby things at a time.i.e.clothes and nappies.Asda do cheap baby clothes.
I know its not as easy has what i have just wrote in RL, but i think you could do it.
Most people haven't got £150 aweek spare after all bill have been paid,and they do manage.Its when you look at it all together it seems like its impossible.
And for what its worth i don't think you would have been entitled to the £500 grant.Your income is to high.

knittedbreast · 26/04/2011 12:35

could you move back in with your parents for 2 or 3 months and save a deposit? thats what we had to do.

the tenancy deposit guarantee scheme probebly wont help you on 30k a year.
you could always say you have split up because you cant afford to live together. then they will give you and the children a deposit for somewhere. once you have chosen the house and moved in you can move your hubby in aswell and he can start paying the rent. its all perfectly legal and many families have to do it sadly becuase they cant afford to save

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