Sorry to hear you have been through this.
I had a molar pregnancy in 2003, and have since gone on to have 2 dds and am pregnant with dc3.
My mp was persistent and invasive (which is very rare), which meant that I had to have 2 erpcs, and a course of chemotherapy.
I was and am monitered by Charing Cross - who are fantastic, and a great source of information and advice, their website is here. Depending on where you are, your hcg levels should be monitored (through blood and urine tests), by one of the molar pregnancy centres (Charing Cross, Sheffied and Dundee).
There is also a website, here, which has a chat forum, and other information about molar pregnancies, that may be helpful.
It is very important, that you have your hcg levels monitered to watch them coming down, and wait the required amount of time before ttc, so that molar tissue doesn't recur.
Please look after yourself, and feel free to cat me, or come on here if you want to chat.