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latestincarnation · 08/11/2009 14:08

Hi ladies (especially those popping over from due July)...I was hoping I wouldn't be posting in these topics ever again. A MMC 2 years ago first introduced me the the wonders of mumsnet, as I sort for answers after 12 weeks of hopes was lost.

Unfortunately this little beanie wasn't sticky. Its only 6 weeks this, time, and it has been a strange few weeks. I have felt that this pregnancy hasn't been right from the start - 2 BFNs, followed by 4 (ahem) BFP's, but weak. The DD was also exactly the same as my last MC, so I have felt it wasn't meant to be. I felt my symptoms lift last week, and hoped I was being over sensitive, but a vivid dream of a Mc 4 nights ago was confirmed yesterday morning.

Those of you from due July will know I was about to tell mum this weekend - she didn't suss me, but did have to have the "I was pregnant but I'm now not" conversation. Luckily I am much more philosophical this time, and seemed to have been prepared for it by my body. I have a gorgeous ds who is proof my body can hold to term, so we will try again.

Unfortunately anyone who has been through this loses the excitement that first innocent BFP had, and I hate that I spend the first weeks of a pregnancy with my fingers crossed, trying not to get excited. But I know my ds will have a sibling, eventually.

To everyone from due July - thanks for the chat and support, I wish you all the best over the next 9 months, and I am sorry and sad to be leaving you all.

Latest xxx

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lazyemma · 08/11/2009 14:29

I'm so sorry to read your sad news, latest. Fingers crossed that your son won't have to wait long for a little brother or sister and I hope you're OK as you can be.

GibbonInARibbon · 08/11/2009 16:11

Oh latest I am sat here feeling so for you, I wish I knew what to say but as you know at times like this there isn't anything except am here to listen. I have been thinking of you all weekend and will keep you in my thoughts. You will have your brother or sister for DS, keep on keepin on latest xxxx

Irishfairy · 08/11/2009 16:30

So sorry latest can only imagine what you are going through...sending you healing thoughts and best wishes for the future xxx

WinterMadness · 08/11/2009 16:39

So sorry to hear your news latest My thought are with you x

Page62 · 08/11/2009 18:35

so sorry to hear . hope your family and friends are able to give you the kind of support you would like and hope things work out very soon for you and your family

grumpypumpkin · 08/11/2009 18:37

sad news, take care of yourself and your family and good luck for future bean sticking when you feel up to trying again

sleb1 · 08/11/2009 19:25

I'm so sorry - I can imagine your pain and upset. Keep focussing on that little brother or sister for you ds. I'm sure it will happen

ApuskiDusky · 08/11/2009 19:31

Latest, I'm so sorry to hear this . Take good care of yourself, I'm thinking of you.

MiniMarmite · 08/11/2009 19:37

So sorry Latest

I was due May but other than that our situations are quite similar - MMC 2 years ago (that introduced my to MN!), DS , MMC a few weeks ago.

Glad you are feeling philosophical and positive that your DS will have a brother of sister. Take care of yourself though and give yourself whatever time you need.

GhoulsAreLoud · 08/11/2009 19:39

I'm so sorry to hear this latest xx

WickedWitchSouthWest · 08/11/2009 20:08

Oh latest I'm so sorry take care, I'll miss you x

willitbe · 08/11/2009 21:29

Latest - sorry to hear that you had had another miscarriage. It is a hard time saying goodbye to the little one.

Firerise · 08/11/2009 21:48

Latest, really am so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you xox

randomama · 08/11/2009 22:39

so sorry to hear your news latest. thinking of you. so sad. take care of yourself. hugs xoxox

latestincarnation · 09/11/2009 19:30

Thanks for all your kind words xxx

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